Sparagmos
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- Oct 19, 2018
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This teacher sounds controlling, this is just the type of thing cult leaders tell people to do. I’m not saying they are part of a cult but the behavior is similar. God commands us to honor our parents, and take care of the elderly. I’d question why you are letting this teacher have authority over you and what their motive is for wanting to keep you from your family.I live in Sydney, Australia and I've recently began going to a Beginner's Bible Study Program that runs for 7 weeks that finishes at the end of the month. At the beginning of October a VERY Intensive Bible Study Class will commence that runs for 3 days a week for 8 months until May/June next year that my Tutor really wants me to attend.
I already have travel plans to the US and Canada in January/February next year to visit my sick Grandmother and Family/Friends. Everything from flights and accommodation is already set and paid for. I will be gone about 5-6 weeks and will miss about 18 Bible Lessons.
My Tutor has been pressuring me into cutting short the trip and even cancelling the trip altogether. She says by me choosing the Trip and Family over God/Bible Study I am choosing my own thoughts and desires over God which is making me feel really guilty. I feel angry that she is trying to take me on a guilt trip and trying to derail my plans. I've suggested that she and I do our own study over Skype but she doesn't want that she wants me to be here in person for the study.
Any advice? What would you do?
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