Contrary to your expectation of chastisement against me Dave, I enjoy God's blessings daily despite being a divorcee!
In fact I've not ceased enjoying God's blessings since I gave my life to the Lord around 60 years ago.
When my first wife had an affair, although I was devastated at the betrayal, I took hold of God's amazing peace, and that is what sustained me through the darkness.
I completely believed in the sanctity of marriage, so forgave her, but in the end, she still walked out. She had no intention of reconciliation.
Devastated again, I went and drank deeply of God's amazing peace. Then when I sought Him for guidance, God confirmed that she had no intention of changing.
Subsequent to that I moved to a different church, and whilst there, I met the woman of God who would become my new wife.
She had been faithfully praying for a husband, someone who God would directly lead her to. She had refused to go out with anyone unless it was the man she would marry, and God had sustained her in that through many years.
We both heard God speak that we were to be married, and many people confirmed it as God's purpose in our lives.
We now live in God's peace and joy every day, and have seen amazing answers to prayer and wonderful provision from Him. In fact our life together has been a real joyful adventure as we discover more and more of God's plans for our life.
One of the things the Lord has done is given us a ministry into marriage together.
We have been in situations where complete strangers have asked us directly whether we have a ministry into marriage, and would we pray there and then.
So
@Dave L , contrary to your judgements against us, God has blessed us instead, and shown us his salvation every day.
You should try grace Dave, its far more fruitful than law!