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One of my previous rabbis grew up in southern California and every year at High Holy Days, the women would show up in the most expensive latest furs (even though the temps were in the upper 80s) just to show off and try to outdo everyone else.far more modest in bearing than someone who dresses conservatively with the most expensive designer brands with the labels all in clear view for the purpose of making sure everyone knows how wealthy and superior they are.
I mostly wear loose fitting trousers and a variety of shirt types. Imo I think quality is important but I don't mean designer cashmere etc. Buying second hand is a good option.What does Christian modesty mean for men and women in today’s culture?
To facilitate the discussion I’m requesting three things from respondents:
— Please share an opinion based on your gender first. This subject skews disproportionately towards women and I would like to see edifying comments for both sexes.
— Please provide biblical support for your opinion if applicable.
— And for the sake of clarity for everyone, please share a visible example of the modest attire you’re addressing. Please avoid posting immodest images or videos in deference to those with struggles.
Thank you. I look forward to your response.
I just realised. I have an expensive pair of running shoes. They're not for showing off they're to prevent a recurring injury in my heel. Is it ok to buy expensive things if they serve a purpose?What does Christian modesty mean for men and women in today’s culture?
To facilitate the discussion I’m requesting three things from respondents:
— Please share an opinion based on your gender first. This subject skews disproportionately towards women and I would like to see edifying comments for both sexes.
— Please provide biblical support for your opinion if applicable.
— And for the sake of clarity for everyone, please share a visible example of the modest attire you’re addressing. Please avoid posting immodest images or videos in deference to those with struggles.
Thank you. I look forward to your response.
I wanted Brooks actually but they didn't have my size so I got another brand.My daughter wears Brooks sneakers to combat discomfort. They were recommended by her podiatrist. To my knowledge most shoes that address issues like these are more expensive as are the insoles.
I believe God desires us to consider our hearts in our decision-making. Am I purchasing the item for its quality or hoping to gain external spoils through its possession? I don’t think the latter is beneficial to my condition.
Unfortunately I paid full price for mine. The brand is Hoka One One. They're good shoes but I only got them because of the heel issue really.They go on sale from time to time online. I’ve seen them. Usually around $79-$89 USD.
I don’t think tank tops are immodest. We had record temperatures and several died. Our humidity is pretty bad and that adds to the issue. I dressed appropriately for the weather.
I hope that was conveyed to you in a loving manner and you were given examples of alternative options. Most of all I hope you seek the Lord on this subject and let Him order your steps.