I thank you all for all the insightful advice that you all gave to me. All is well on this side. We making the effort to be like we were before. I'll be honest in that I cant shake why this happened. Its like we whitewashed things without really getting to the roots of what went on and why it went on. Sometimes I want to go up to the guy and ask him, what were you thinking, and why would you want to hang out with another's man's woman in secluded place. I asked my wife time after time and all she can say is she was doing the Lord's work. No admission of bad judgement and she completely forgot that I told her I was jealous of him in 2 occasions. maybe one day I will get over it but as for now it is stewing inside of me. again thanks for all the advice..
Honestly, you come of as extremely combative. I have to wonder about parts you are leaving out of it of the circumstance.
If you decide you are going to allow it stew - as you mentioned - don't expect things to get better. Stewing only makes it worse. That part will be on you.
We are asked forgive, and it's clear you both have a difference of opinion on the matter. Your jealousy and lack of not willing to let it go since its in the past is also a show of bad judgement. You need to get a handle on that if you don't want to ruin the relationship completely.
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