How many ex-Christians are there here on CF and reason for leaving Christianity?

Did you leave Christianity? And did you return?


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the whole problem of being a christian and then not being one can largely be put into this parable and it seems to be mostly resolved by the wisdom therein. right discernment and purity of heart leaves one with the power of "freedom from" and "freedom to be" because they have liberty. which is why I can both hold on and let go. but if someone only sees evil in a thing then they are right for rejecting it and I am most certain that God would be pleased with that.

Luke 5:37-38 (YLT)
5:37 `And no one doth put new wine into old skins, and if otherwise, the new wine will burst the skins, and itself will be poured out, and the skins will be destroyed;
5:38 but new wine into new skins is to be put, and both are preserved together;


Even the notion of God as a "He" and "The Most High" betrays the origins of this concept in patriarchy and early bronze age political structures.

we use the language and what is in being that can be used and accepted in order to reach and lift up those that are willing. then the problem of the sins of the fathers affecting the children occurs. so people fall into various pitfalls of outdated camels hair clothing interpretations that were never meant to be taken as the sovereign Lord to begin with, as they were just outward expression that were useful to whatever beings they are useful to. in the process of salvation the sins of the fathers will not affect the children due to a growing spiritual maturity and less stumbling.

How is such a relationship possible, if the other party cannot be experienced through the senses?

in my experience... by existing richly and more fully. by paying more attention. prayer and directedness to God rather than busying yourself with less important things which the majority of the world is caught up in for the majority of the time. personal development. through goodness and truth. by noticing the beings that are always around us, but invisible. but I must note that I find myself more and more to be a micro of the macro reality and thus I am a vital part to it and can not know it without being of it. so I don't count myself as only a creature and I don't put as many limits or restraints on myself as most people do.

Without that experience of the being itself, I can just as easily claim that those gifts come from some other person, god, goddess, etc.

sorry to butt in more, your words give me things to reflect upon. what's wrong with having a creative interpretation of what you experience? but many will just use their own religious context to frame their experiences.

I wish more people would cut out "authoritarianism" from their concepts of God. it's so annoying that people pretend they are not the truth (when they have united with or have communion with it) and they act like it is something outside themselves, as something alien from them. people want to bend their knee so much that even truth is now something they must obey rather than it being their very life, experience, and understanding. they are captured by ignorance and the sophistry that their discursive experience and lower aspect gives them.

personalism makes expression of God a very personal and real thing. God as an close other is just finding God in someone else united to the Logos who is the fullness of all souls, who is the super-united becoming expression and end-goal of the experiential world, and true salvation. enlightenment is finding you are yourself united to the divine. thus two main experiences with God is an otherness experience and a sameness experience. negation and positive expression.

whatever measure you limit yourself to is the kind of measure you will receive. there are already certain limits in existing as a limited form. I would try to open up more rather than restrict more but maybe both ways are valid paths.
 
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From Jesus and Buddha: The Parallel Sayings

Jesus
: "Do to others as you would have them do to you." Luke 6:31
Buddha: "Consider others as yourself." Dhammapada 10:1

Jesus: "If anyone strikes you on the cheek, offer the other also." Luke 6:29
Buddha: "If anyone should give you a blow with his hand, with a stick, or with a knife, you should abandon any desires and utter no evil words." Majjhima Nikaya 21:6

Jesus: "Truly I tell you, just as you did not do it to one of the least of these, you did not do it to me." Matthew 25:45
Buddha: "If you do not tend to one another, then who is there to tend you? Whoever would tend me, he should tend the sick." Vinaya, Mahavagga 8:26.3

Jesus: "Put your sword back into its place; for all those who take the sword will perish by the sword." Matthew 26:52
Buddha: "Abandoning the taking of life, the ascetic Gautama dwells refraining from taking life, without stick or sword." Digha Nikaya 1:1.8

Jesus: "Those who want to save their life will lose it, and those who lose their life for my sake will save it." Mark 8:35
Buddha: "With the relinquishing of all thought and egotism, the enlightened one is liberated through not clinging." Majjhima Nikaya 72:15

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Jesus “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me." John 14:6
Buddha - No Parallel Saying
 
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people interpret the scriptures according to the spirits that suggest the meaning of it to them.

that verse is speaking of spiritual growth and refinement.

yes, the evil spirits went out of me because they pretended to be angels of light. but in the light of better angels and God they were shown to be suffering and insane beings. thus as I matured as a christian I developed a capacity to discern between good and evil.
There is only the Holy Spirit of God who can allow any person to come to truth.
The carnal mind is enmity against God,is not subject to the law of God, neither indeed can it be.
 
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Jesus “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me." John 14:6
Buddha - No Parallel Saying

Many scholars don't think Jesus actually said this. This is sort of like the Christian equivalent of the Lotus Sutra, which many scholars believed was penned in India or China centuries after the Buddha's death. The Gospel of John reflects the views of the early Christian community, not necessarily an historical Jesus.

That doesn't mean its not in some sense authoritative, but it's naive to think the words of the Gospel of John is absolute truth.
 
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Many scholars don't think Jesus actually said this. This is sort of like the Christian equivalent of the Lotus Sutra, which many scholars believed was penned in India or China centuries after the Buddha's death. The Gospel of John reflects the views of the early Christian community, not necessarily an historical Jesus.

That doesn't mean its not in some sense authoritative, but it's naive to think the words of the Gospel of John is absolute truth.
Those pseudo scholars will be in hell in their sin and unbelief
 
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Those pseudo scholars will be in hell in their sin and unbelief

Trying to scare mature adults with threats is hardly ennobling discourse.
 
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The bible is not a book. It is the word of God written.
You will be judged by what it says whether you believe it or not.

How disappointed would you be if we weren't?
It seems the best presentation of your god that you've given us is that he's out to punish us for all eternity unless we drop what we're doing and worship him. That has 0 appeal in this day and age.

Who needs demons when you're doing a fantastic job driving us away from your god all by yourself?
 
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Many scholars don't think Jesus actually said this. This is sort of like the Christian equivalent of the Lotus Sutra, which many scholars believed was penned in India or China centuries after the Buddha's death. The Gospel of John reflects the views of the early Christian community, not necessarily an historical Jesus.
That doesn't mean its not in some sense authoritative, but it's naive to think the words of the Gospel of John is absolute truth.

Do you think Jesus thought differently of Himself, that He was just another prophet? What about Matt 16:13-17

13 Now when Jesus came into the district of Caesarea Philippi, He began asking His disciples, saying, “Who do people say that the Son of Man is?” 14 And they said, “Some say John the Baptist; and others, Elijah; but still others, Jeremiah, or one of the prophets.” 15 He said to them, “But who do you say that I am?” 16 And Simon Peter answered and said, “You are the Christ, the Son of the living God.” 17 And Jesus answered and said to him, “Blessed are you, Simon Barjona, because flesh and blood did not reveal this to you, but My Father who is in heaven.
 
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How disappointed would you be if we weren't?
It seems the best presentation of your god that you've given us is that he's out to punish us for all eternity unless we drop what we're doing and worship him. That has 0 appeal in this day and age.

Who needs demons when you're doing a fantastic job driving us away from your god all by yourself?
When Noah warned those who lived in his day of a judgment to come,that message did not interest them also.Their indifference and scoffing did not avert the flood however.
 
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When Noah warned those who lived in his day of a judgment to come,that message did not interest them also.Their indifference and scoffing did not avert the flood however.

There was no flood, but if there was, I still would never honor any deity that would commit planetary genocide; including plants, animals, and children.
 
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There is evidence for a mass extinction event everywhere you look. Earth scientists claim there were several. Scientists choose to interpret whale bone fossils on mountain peaks a little differently is all.
 
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There is evidence for a mass extinction event everywhere you look. Earth scientists claim there were several. Scientists choose to interpret whale bone fossils on mountain peaks a little differently is all.

There's a world of difference between naturally occurring events and a deity throwing a temper tantrum.
 
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That has been said to be the worst generation ever. Gen 6

Plants. Animals. Children. Infants.
If planetary genocide is any god's choice to deal with it, then that god is necessarily evil.
 
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Plants. Animals. Children. Infants.
If planetary genocide is any god's choice to deal with it, then that god is necessarily evil.

After the flood we did repopulate. Plus inevitable genocide isn't the end of us. We live on and on.
'And it is appointed unto men once to die but after this the judgement. ' Hebrews 9: 27
 
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After the flood we did repopulate. Plus inevitable genocide isn't the end of us. We live on and on.
'And it is appointed unto men once to die but after this the judgement. ' Hebrews 9: 27

There is no evidence of a world encompassing flood; it wouldn't even be possible.
It wouldn't be possible for a family to repopulate the world.
It doesn't negate the fact that drowning countless infants is still evil.
 
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It doesn't negate the fact that drowning countless infants is still evil.
Life is the Lord's to give and to take, and there is a spirit world and an afterlife so it's hard for us to gauge if those infants feel they were done evil against them, but I'm encouraged to know that you are pro life.
 
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The bible is not a book. It is the word of God written.
You will be judged by what it says whether you believe it or not.
Another claim without any proof.
 
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