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Ephesians 4:32 be kind and compassionate to one another is one of the Bible verses on our fridge and one that our preteen cites when dealing with classmates
she is kind even to those who have hurt her at school (including physically) & readily forgives
we're glad she is kind but as she gets older, want her to be able to speak up for herself, also
for example, this week she sat with 3 other girls in class (first come, first serve for seats)
a fourth girl came over & wanted to sit there so our child gave up her seat & then had to go sit at a table full of boys
note: this class has twice as many boys as girls so there's less chance to make friends with the girls
QUESTION: how do we let her keep her kindness but also encourage her to stick up for herself?
this type of thing happens with some teachers, also
i.e. a child was misbehaving & kept talking with our child
teacher told that child to move but she said no
so then teacher asked our child to move
(this kind of stuff happens over and over as our child is kind and not rebellious so it's easier to ask our child to move rather than the troublemaker)
she is kind even to those who have hurt her at school (including physically) & readily forgives
we're glad she is kind but as she gets older, want her to be able to speak up for herself, also
for example, this week she sat with 3 other girls in class (first come, first serve for seats)
a fourth girl came over & wanted to sit there so our child gave up her seat & then had to go sit at a table full of boys
note: this class has twice as many boys as girls so there's less chance to make friends with the girls
QUESTION: how do we let her keep her kindness but also encourage her to stick up for herself?
this type of thing happens with some teachers, also
i.e. a child was misbehaving & kept talking with our child
teacher told that child to move but she said no
so then teacher asked our child to move
(this kind of stuff happens over and over as our child is kind and not rebellious so it's easier to ask our child to move rather than the troublemaker)
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