Are you suggesting the majority of single Christians aren’t chaste? I was abstinent before I came to faith. I’ve had a long tenure of purity and I was in the world. That is an issue of personal conviction and self-respect.
No one who values their relationship with God and their temple would knowingly engage in the activities mentioned. There are some whose former sins pose greater challenges to obedience than others. But you’ll have struggles they don’t. So you’re confessing something nonetheless. ;-)
*No, I’m not advocating premarital sex or lauding chastity. It is a question of self-control. Some excel in that area more than others. It should never be a source of spiritual pride.
They exist. But as with most things if it can be convoluted and complicated that’s the approach. The simple act of getting to know someone and acknowledging your interest is turned into steps 1-3 and so on. That isn’t how most people relate.
The reason there’s so much singleness in Christian circles isn’t due to the culture or lack of interest. You’re looking for righteous sinners and narrowing the field so much there’s barely anyone left. I can’t wrap my mind around it. And for the sake of my peace I no longer try.
So, find a nice girl who shares your views on premarital sex and loves the Lord heartily.