70 percent will need long term care

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Old age is a disaster for most folks. I am age 84 and my son and brother broke off completely with me. My daughter lives across the street and only speaks to me once per week on the telephone and visits once every 2 weeks. Only my wife stands by me and she is age 80.

Two doctors abused my feet and one technician abused my eyes. I just lost 70% of vision in my right eye and had to undergo ultrasonic tests of my carotid arteries. I can barely walk, stand or see.

I do have a Living Will and Advanced Directives which allow me to refuse all treatment including food and water.

Swiss doctors offer some folks an easy Exit but for me it is just too distant to travel.

My only hope:

I accept the Will of God. Many things about tomorrow I don't seem to understand, but I know who holds tomorrow and I know who holds my hand. I just live from day to day while Jesus leads the way. My heart is with Him on the Throne, and ill can brook delay, each moment listening for the voice, "Rise up and come away."

So sorry dear one to hear of your situation especially with family members, I understand that this is not uncommon sadly and can only say that your beautiful faith in God shines through in your posts.

I posted previously that I was able to care for both my parents ( I have always been single and we lived together) but not all my siblings were particularly supportive, so I have seen both sides and my heart goes out to you.

The most comforting thing to remember is that this life is nothing compared to what God has prepared for all His children.
Understandably, living with pain daily ( I do also) really wears you down, what helps me is knowing Jesus understands every single part of our pain having suffered so much for us, and He holds us through it all.

God bless you and your dear wife
 
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I have Metastatic Melanoma, stage 4, I'm going into hospice care and the next stage will be nursing care. I don't like it but llife isnt really offering me a lot of options.

With the baby boomers aging now sociol securiity and assisted living are going to feel some strain for a while, but it will tapper off after a while. I know I like this option better then wasting away in an over crowded cancer ward.
 
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I have Metastatic Melanoma, stage 4, I'm going into hospice care and the next stage will be nursing care. I don't like it but llife isnt really offering me a lot of options.

With the baby boomers aging now sociol securiity and assisted living are going to feel some strain for a while, but it will tapper off after a while. I know I like this option better then wasting away in an over crowded cancer ward.
 
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With all these problems of the elderly, don't forget to prepare and sign a Living Will and Advanced Directives where necessary. Those documents give an elderly person with severe suffering the right to refuse all treatment including nutrition and hydration.

These documents must be prepared while mentally competent and will be enforced by one's surrogates when incompetent.

The elderly would also need a spouse and / or children in sympathy with these documents.

My spouse supports me using these documents, if required, but my kids do not.

Christ takes care of us but we must supply the means.
 
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With all these problems of the elderly, don't forget to prepare and sign a Living Will and Advanced Directives where necessary.

this is something we need to do as well as a regular will
we talk about doing a will with a lawyer but haven't yet

we've only done a simple one by ourselves
 
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"An estimated 70% of people currently turning 65 will require long-term care in their lifetime, and they will receive care for an average of 3 years."

I know we can pray to be healthy into old age
statistically, we may be one of the 70% needing care


as a Christian, how do we plan for aging needs?

Well to a large extent we have great influence over whether we end up being a statistic or not. We need to reject this failed medical system and work with our bodies to keep us healthy.
 
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