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1. Well as Jay Rock's track WIN states *WIN WIN WIN WIN F(DK EVERYTHING ELSE - WIN WIN WIN WIN - STOP CHASING THAT B!<TCH! WIN WIN WIN WIN*

Best to just walk alone now.
Ephesians 4:29 Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.

Walk with Jesus.

Call on Him in the morning, in the afternoon, and in the evening.

He'll be there.
 
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Ephesians 4:29 Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.

The post you were responding to is pretty much what prompted me to say what I did last night in the hangout thread, about not expecting girls to come flocking to you if you are going to do and say things such as casually throwing out derogatory terms like "(w)itch" when referring to the ladies in general.
 
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The post you were responding to is pretty much what prompted me to say what I did last night in the hangout thread, about not expecting girls to come flocking to you if you are going to do and say things such as casually throwing out derogatory terms like "(w)itch" when referring to the ladies in general.
Yes, and thank you. We should all remember what Jesus said to the crowd: that it's not what goes into someone's mouth that defiles them, but what comes out of their mouth, that's what defiles them. There are many scriptures on cursing and profanity to cause us to think twice about the words that come out of our mouth. It's a part of our walk with Jesus to listen to what the bible says about swearing.
 
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It is 5:20am.

I was just out cycling to my workplace (trial) from 3:45am whilst roads are dead.

It was good.

cycled 15 miles all together.

That’s a nice looking bike. It looks like you had great riding weather. I hope you enjoyed it! :)
 
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The post you were responding to is pretty much what prompted me to say what I did last night in the hangout thread, about not expecting girls to come flocking to you if you are going to do and say things such as casually throwing out derogatory terms like "(w)itch" when referring to the ladies in general.
REPORT ME!!!!!!!!
 
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REPORT ME!!!!!!!!

I see no need to unless you were to persist in that kind of behavior. My point was to just be careful about how you talk to and relate with the ladies as a whole if you are among those who have a high interest in romance with them.
 
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I think it’s important we’re mindful of our witness at all times. We don’t know who’s observing us or who we may influence through our behavior.

The latter is always affected by the things we read, watch, listen to, and the company we keep. It is errant to assume transgressions in these areas leave us unscathed. Everything you ingest comes out at some point.

I don’t believe entertainment that debases a culture or sex is edifying. Irrespective of its suggestion of authenticity. We are capable of telling the truth without speaking disparagingly about ourselves and others. Neither is loving.
 
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James 1:26 says "Those who consider themselves religious and yet do not keep a tight rein on their tongues deceive themselves, and their religion is worthless." I've inquired about the OP'ers salvation and his response was quasi at best. For those who think this post is judgmental, you're right. What it isn't is condemning though. It'd be good for you know the difference considering Paul said we're to judge those that profess to be believers but talk/walk otherwise.
 
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The b-word is never acceptable irrespective of the person’s conduct.

that's not the point,

some would like to believe people who use this word are referring to all women, including respectable ladies. they're not. they are referring to certain women of low social caliber. would "harlot" be more acceptable as this is the word the scripture uses to refer to these same females?

of course the word should not be a part of anyone's vocabulary, but that's besides the point.
 
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some would like to believe people who use this word are referring to all women, including respectable ladies. they're not. they are referring to certain women of low social caliber.

In light of the discussion and the inference—a Christian woman—it’s understandable why its utterance warranted a response.

I cannot fathom how a godly woman would fall in that camp. I think it’s fair to surmise people use the word as they see fit.
 
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In light of the discussion and the inference—a Christian woman—it’s understandable why its utterance warranted a response.
JD was quoting a rap song from a guy who wasn't referring to a believing woman but to the neighborhood harlot(better?). same as snoop dogg back in the day saying "we don't luv'dem H@$". the news media wanted to make it seem like he and other rappers were referring to all women with no exception, which was not true.
 
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JD was quoting a rap song from a guy who wasn't referring to a believing woman but to the neighborhood harlot(better?). same as snoop dogg back in the day saying "we don't luv'dem H@$". the news media wanted to make it seem like he and other rappers were referring to all women with no exception, which was not true.

And why did he quote it? That’s the issue they’re addressing. He’s talking to himself but the woman in question is one of us.

I understand what you’re saying. :)
 
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And why did he quote it?
I think he was making the point that he should focus on becoming the best version of himself he can be instead of putting energy into chasing a female. could've used a better illustration, but yeah.

just a guess..
 
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I think he was making the point that he should focus on becoming the best version of himself he can be instead of putting energy into chasing a female. could've used a better illustration, but yeah.

just a guess..

That was it.
 
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