What is single?

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Good question. I think the answer is: however people want to identify themselves.

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the first of your scenarios, I think it would be safe to call yourself single, divorced, or widowed. (whichever one is applicable)

But the second one, I think it would be more appropriate to call yourself single.
 
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Is a person single if they are divorced or widowed?

Is a single parent considered single only because they are unwed?
Single parent is someone who is widowed or the spouse abandoned them.
 
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Is a person single if they are divorced or widowed?

Is a single parent considered single only because they are unwed?


These are good questions and they led me to consider "what is marriage"? Have I been married since I have one child (adult now), but have never had a religious/state ceremony?
 
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Good question. I think the answer is however a person wants to identify themselves. And in both of your scenarios, I think it would be safe to call yourself single, divorced, or widowed. (whichever one is applicable)
But what is truthful?
 
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These are good questions and they led me to consider "what is marriage"? Have I been married since I have one child (adult now), but have never had a religious/state ceremony?
Excellent corollary questions...
 
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I think it could technically mean various things; it all depends on how it's being referred. But, I would say being single means not currently married or in a relationship. It's a state of being separate and sole. In many cases, it could also mean being available for a relationship / marriage, in contrast to being celibate.

A single parent would be considered single because they're not married, whether or not they're looking for a relationship. Just my $.02
 
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Is a person single if they are divorced or widowed?

Is a single parent considered single only because they are unwed?

Really, it just boils down to privacy and how much people prefer to relinquish. Same as Miss, Mrs, or Mizz.
 
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I think it could technically mean various things; it all depends on how it's being referred. But, I would say being single means not currently married or in a relationship. It's a state of being separate and sole. In many cases, it could also mean being available for a relationship / marriage, in contrast to being celibate.

A single parent would be considered single because they're not married, whether or not they're looking for a relationship. Just my $.02
Those seem to be a common perceptions.
 
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Those seem to be a common perceptions.
Perhaps, but I saw this as being similar to a logic problem. In my experience, the simplest answer to a problem is usually the best - in this case defining single. Otherwise, overthinking an issue can cause it to become overcomplicated, and a proper solution is never found. Similar to how the Gospel is a stumbling block to many due to it's simplicity.

Single can mean different things to different people, but the definition at it's core doesn't change. Some people may see being single as only not being currently married, not married or in a relationship, not married or divorced, etc. In another case, it could also mean not being in a group (the person is by themselves). In many cases, being single and available are also used interchangeably, even though they don't mean the same thing.

Singleness has it's subjective perceptions, but there is an objective definition for it which doesn't change: a person or object is by itself, based on the context by which the definition is being referred.
 
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Perhaps, but I saw this as being similar to a logic problem. In my experience, the simplest answer to a problem is usually the best - in this case defining single. Otherwise, overthinking an issue can cause it to become overcomplicated, and a proper solution is never found. Similar to how the Gospel is a stumbling block to many due to it's simplicity.

Single can mean different things to different people, but the definition at it's core doesn't change. Some people may see being single as only not being currently married, not married or in a relationship, not married or divorced, etc. In another case, it could also mean not being in a group (the person is by themselves). In many cases, being single and available are also used interchangeably, even though they don't mean the same thing.

Singleness has it's subjective perceptions, but there is an objective definition for it which doesn't change: a person or object is by itself, based on the context by which the definition is being referred.
Agree. Definitions are helpful. Simplest answers are usually best, if they are true. The best answers are accurate and truthful.
 
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Is a person single if they are divorced or widowed?

Is a single parent considered single only because they are unwed?

Legally, such a person would be single, and that's how most people would use the term.
 
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Legally, such a person would be single, and that's how most people would use the term.
When completing a legal document, say the U.S. Census, here's the options (Marital Status from census.gov ("Questions as they appear on the form")... picture):

-Now Married
-Widowed
-Divorced
-Separated
-Never Married --> "Single"

Simply because most people use a term in a certain way, doesn't make it true nor accurate.
 
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While that's true, it's incomplete and more accurate to say that "Single is never married."

I don't think that's the case.

Divorced is still single. Widowed is still single.

You are no longer married, whether it was in or out of your control, so you are single at that point.

If someone chooses to qualify that with the fact they're divorced or widowed is up to them, but it doesn't change the reality that they're single.
 
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