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Awwwwwww bless ya! Do ya thing! I like all looks tbh (that's the problem). But, yeah, hmmmmm there ya go Miss Bella.
That’s okay. I like classic and glam. The 50s pinup is a combination of the two. It’s ideal for an hourglass silhouette. For me, it begins with body type and color analysis. Once you know what looks good then choose the style you prefer.
Yeah - well I don't go anywhere so n/a for me =O no need for me to be dressed like that when i just walk to get some milk and come back LOL
It’s a matter of comfort and preference. Whether I’m going to the store or grabbing coffee doesn’t matter. We’re creatures of habit. Once you make allowances the behavior is ingrained. Much like exercise or eating an organic diet. It becomes a norm.
I will be honest cos my goal is different atm - wearing razzle dazzle to impress people i won't be talking to is hmmmmm
It isn’t for others. You’re investing in yourself. If I have time for this I have time for daily care. If I’m unwilling to do it unless I want attention that’s sad. You’ll drop it once you meet them. Then you’re living in yoga pants. ;-)
I think dressing up reflects the mood of how you are feeling
That may be true for some. Culture and habits are part of it too. This came up in Lessons from Madame Chic. I read it a few years ago. Its about an American exchange student in Paris. The author described her experiences and the striking differences in outlook she encountered with her host.
Madame Chic was orderly and created a pleasant environment for her family without neglecting her appearance. The investment of time and care were daily pleasures. Not drudgery. Her attentiveness was a reflection of love and respect for both. It was a different philosophy from our culture. Shortcuts are a norm.
You can apply the same to your relationship with God and others. Or anything of value in your life. The message stayed with me and I stumbled across a photo a couple of years ago (from the group I shared) and saw myself in the picture.
When I signed up for sewing classes I didn’t expect we’d do pattern adjustments. We’re customizing the fit which means every replica will be ideal. Our first project was a skirt and we finish this week. I’m doubling my classes and we’re making a dress and shirt. Then a jacket and coat and so on. I’ll have a customized wardrobe to build on.
God has a way of showing you yourself. We often say if I had such and such I’d do this. Sometimes He grants it and you discover how serious you are when the opportunity arrives.
You made an important connection about feelings and how we communicate them through our attire. My goal is to exemplify and inspire ladyship. We don’t need another Nicky. That doesn’t edify women.
Point is - all reflective of mood! But as beautiful as being dressed up is - when the heart and mind is still BLEAH inside it is like a sticking a plaster over a stab wound - ya know? The inside needs work.
You can’t be ruled by your feelings and you really aren’t if you pick the statement apart. You allow them to affect one area but not another. Have you stopped exercising or showing up for work? Of course not. You value your finances and physical health too much to do so.
They’re priorities. Oftentimes you don’t realize it until you’re low in spirit. The areas of neglect reveal this. These are places which require God’s light and influence. He never tells us to slack off or do just enough. His mark is excellence and He moves us in that direction.
As we are on fashion SOME PEOPLE (especially my age and younger) the priorities are so messed up! I have known people that have 30 different pairs of shoes (like a woman) but don't have their own place to live! Priorities! People's priorities can be messed up!
I don’t support anyone living beyond their means. Whether they live at home or own their own. That’s unwise. Moving away from home is a modern phenomenon. People moved out when they married.
My daughter lives at home. She has a comfortable life and needn’t worry about expenses. Its my pleasure to provide that. There’s nothing she’s unable to do with me that she cannot do alone. Save sin.
Living at home allows her to save money and pursue self-employment without financial strain. It takes time to build your coffers and establish a career. She’s putting things in place to enable her to have the lifestyle she prefers.
What you’re describing suggests excess but you’re applying your values to their choices. Thrift is a mindset and some people maintain it irrespective of their finances. Others prefer more comforts.
If the individual can meet their expenses and isn’t overextending themselves financially that’s fine. I don’t expect others to share my views on money. Save the one I marry and to some degree the man she does. Otherwise, it’s none of my business.
They say you should smile more cos that is attractive bla bla blaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
That’s true. ;-)
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