I was humbled and convicted today

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I've been trying to explain the Word and Christianity and all that to a nonbelieving friend lately. They've been asking me questions lately, which is encouraging. But today, they were telling me about someone they met who they feel could answer their questions much better than I can. I asked if they thought what I had been telling them seemed logical; they said no.

Ouch. As someone who's struggled for years to make sure what I believe makes sense and to be able to understand and communicate the reasons for why I believe, this was like a punch in the gut for me. Honestly I've been feeling discouraged after that. But I suppose I should take this as a humbling occasion that convicts me to improve the way I communicate the Word.

I praise God that this nonbelieving friend of mine is continuing to ask questions and investigate Christianity, and I ask for prayer that God will continue to reveal Himself to my friend, whether it's through me, the new person they met, or anyone or anything else. And I pray that I will continue to grow and improve spiritually as well so that I can effectively communicate the reasons for my belief.
 

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Remember Paul’s words...

And I, when I came to you, brothers, did not come proclaiming to you the testimony of God with lofty speech or wisdom. For I decided to know nothing among you except Jesus Christ and him crucified.

Write down the answers you provided to your friend. You need to see them from his vantage point and vernacular.

Consider how much you shared about your journey. Including uncertainty and doubts. Telling your story is usually more effective and relatable for unbelievers. Especially if you articulate how you felt when you were seeking. :)
 
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Sometimes we just plant the seed. Don't beat yourself up, because you may well have planted one in this person and it just hasn't sprouted yet. Thus their journey begins, perhaps.

It's the Holy Spirit who ultimately convinces them anyway. It's our job to drop a word on them, it doesn't have to make sense ( well as long as it's sound I mean), suddenly a bell might ring later in life, she/he adds that to what the next person dropped on her/him etc.. !!

So don't beat yourself up, God has witnessed what you did. Rest in that.
 
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I've been trying to explain the Word and Christianity and all that to a nonbelieving friend lately. They've been asking me questions lately, which is encouraging. But today, they were telling me about someone they met who they feel could answer their questions much better than I can. I asked if they thought what I had been telling them seemed logical; they said no.

Ouch. As someone who's struggled for years to make sure what I believe makes sense and to be able to understand and communicate the reasons for why I believe, this was like a punch in the gut for me. Honestly I've been feeling discouraged after that. But I suppose I should take this as a humbling occasion that convicts me to improve the way I communicate the Word.

I praise God that this nonbelieving friend of mine is continuing to ask questions and investigate Christianity, and I ask for prayer that God will continue to reveal Himself to my friend, whether it's through me, the new person they met, or anyone or anything else. And I pray that I will continue to grow and improve spiritually as well so that I can effectively communicate the reasons for my belief.

Mostly just be an example ... and yes ... plant seeds ... the only way the seed will grow is through the word of God ... so until a person is willing to actually read it, study it, the seed is dormant.
 
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Lord we bring this prayer to you, bless Trayalc, non believing friends. Let you work them them help to know you better and help and use Trayalc to answer and share your words and let it convict them. Lord bless this prsyer, in Jesus loving name, Amen!
 
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asking Yahweh to remove the blinders from their minds and let the wonderful news of Christ shine

. "...for their minds have been blinded by the god of this age, leaving them in unbelief. Their blindness keeps them from seeing the dayspring light of the wonderful news of the glory of Jesus Christ, who is the divine image of God."
II Cor 4:4
 
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