For many years I have been struggeling with something. At a Christian festival as I sat among the people thinking about this problem an older woman (I never seen before) a few seats away started profetizing with a loud voice. It was like she was talking directly to me, starting with "So says the Lord..." and continuing with describing my problem and ending with that I didn't have to worry and that God would help me.
First of all, what did you know about this woman? Nothing, it seems. How, then, do you know she prophesied legitimately? She could just have been some nut taking on the role of prophet without any real leading of God.
Could you not have found in God's word, the Bible, all that you needed to know about God's will concerning your problem? Surely, Scripture tells us again and again that God is with His own and will help them. You don't need a prophet to tell you so.
This is maybe five years ago and still the prophecy hasn't come true.
This is what marked a false prophet from a true one, in the OT. If a prophet's prophecy didn't come true he was declared a false prophet and was to be killed. That's how serious it was to presume to speak for God.
Now I wonder why. Is it because I doubted in God's promise or because of personal sins, or maybe something else? Maybe more important, is the prophecy still valid or do think God has taken it back?
I doubt very much the prophecy was ever valid.
Also, I would urge you not to make the mistake of assuming that correlation equals causation. In other words, just because two things seem directly related by their proximity to each other in time or place, does not mean they are. My father-in-law is a rather simple, superstitious man, a migrant from a still-tribal country, and so he is prone to thinking that because two things happen together they are therefore directly related. For example, he was up early one morning to use the washroom and tripped in the hallway. Right after he did, a rooster crowed outside. Because the two things happened one right after the other, he believes his stumbling in the hallway made the rooster crow. He can't explain how, though; that the two things happened in rapid succession is enough to link them directly to each other. This is fallacious thinking, however - superstitious, really - and not the sort of thinking in which a Christian should indulge. I find, though, that this is often how Christians think when looking for God's direction. I would urge you not to be one of them.