- Jul 14, 2019
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1. Okay - so be myself - that is easy enough.
2. I can be direct to be honest it depends on my mood................but I want to find out about her............so maybe a *Hi, how long have you been at this church for?*............something like that................
3. Fearless.....this is where I need Christ......It is amazing because before all of this I was VERY upfront to women (for wrong reasons maybe) but now I have good intentions to really know somebody I have the entire *scared crush feeling* lol I do need to step up and man up on many fronts. But Baptism is crucial.......... Maybe I can ask her if she has been baptised!
4. Yeah - by nature men must lead in these things..............................sametime I don't like when women (SOME NOT ALL) act like they are too good to be spoken too - so I would like to think in the Christian sense it is a different cos we are all under Christ. Chemistry is chemistry......laws of attraction is laws of attraction. Again - i just want to know about her that is all!
2. I can be direct to be honest it depends on my mood................but I want to find out about her............so maybe a *Hi, how long have you been at this church for?*............something like that................
3. Fearless.....this is where I need Christ......It is amazing because before all of this I was VERY upfront to women (for wrong reasons maybe) but now I have good intentions to really know somebody I have the entire *scared crush feeling* lol I do need to step up and man up on many fronts. But Baptism is crucial.......... Maybe I can ask her if she has been baptised!
4. Yeah - by nature men must lead in these things..............................sametime I don't like when women (SOME NOT ALL) act like they are too good to be spoken too - so I would like to think in the Christian sense it is a different cos we are all under Christ. Chemistry is chemistry......laws of attraction is laws of attraction. Again - i just want to know about her that is all!
I will always advise a man to be himself in respect to the opposite sex. If that isn’t enough then she isn’t the one. I don’t believe in contortions or masks for either.
That depends on him. If he’s the direct sort he can introduce himself and strike up a conversation. But if that’s too forward (and it isn’t I appreciate directness) and he prefers to do so in a group setting that’s okay.
My perspective is simple. I want you to feel comfortable at all times. I’m interested in who you are in the raw rather than what you feel you need to project to be accepted. It’s you being a man without fear or uncertainty.
And I will respond to that but not in the same way you’ve done. That’s illegitimate. I’m a woman and that’s where we meet. Male and female. We’ll allow the conversation to flow organically.
But you’re taking the lead. I won’t. That’s important. I want to stimulate your manhood. Not crush it. Entertaining your company and leaving you with a positive feeling is worth it. That’s how I’m wired.
No games. No pretenses. Just two people getting acquainted.
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