My wife has gone to the pastors at my church and told them I do not work. I do work and have a job, however I just do not make as much money as my wife, actually I work constantly around the house etc. My family has plenty money to make payments house, food, everything. The church deems that I am in violation of first Timothy 5:8 and is in the process of treating me as a nonbeliever. I have attached a letter below from the church would you please read and give me advice. It seems to me they are mis using scriptures. Your careful consideration would be appreciated. See letter from church below.
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Bottom line, the church has the right to follow the teachings in the Bible on how to deal with its members.
Part of being a Christian is submitting to the authority of the church. You should submit to the church on this.
And no, the church is not mis-using the scriptures. In fact, it's all the other churches that would never do what they have done here, that are not following scriptures.
Your wife went to the church. According to the letter there are on-going financial problems in your home.
This is either true, or it is false.
If it is true.... then you need to heed the correction given to you. You need to be working a full time job, or a better job, that provides more income.
It does not matter what work you are doing around the house, if you have bills to pay and your wife is constantly stressed over money.
You need to work a full time job.
And let me give you a word of warning. I've met women like this. When a woman gets to the point that she is contacting the church, and talking about all the details of her married life with the church leadership... she is getting fed up, and at the end of her rope.
I've met them. And at some point, a woman will feel like she is paying for her husband to sit around at home, and will simply say "I'm better off with out him".
I am not trying to freak you out about your marriage, I am just saying I have seen that with my own eyes. And one day the guy wakes up, and the woman is gone, and there are divorce papers on the kitchen table. In fact I know two different men that have had this happen.
In fact I met a third lady that did exactly this just 2 weeks ago at work. Her husband wanted to quit his job, and live off his wife's income. She said no. He quit his job anyway. They are divorce now. She said to me "I'm not going to keep working hard, so he can watch TV".
So my bottom line advice to you is... obey the instructions of the church. Get a job, and work a full 40 hours a week. Again... this is just advice. You can ignore it if you want, but this is what I think you should do. But I think this is a great church, that they were willing discipline a church member.