- Dec 21, 2018
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so, I can’t post in the marriage forum but that’s probably because my relationship status on here is private.
I’m married. I’m a Christian and my husband is not.
I don’t not believe in divorce.
He does not find me attractive at all, calls me fat (I just started a weight Watchers program and going to begin working out, I’m 200lbs at 5’9). He doesn’t even have the slightest interest in marriage counseling or couples therapy. He changed his mind about wanting children (which I was accepting of until the next fact). He used to tell me he just didn’t want to have sex at all until today which he told me he wants to have sex with other women. He is flip flopping right now stating that he doesn’t actually want that, he’s just bored and finds me unattractive to saying he doesn’t know what he wants.
I moved across the world for him.
I don’t believe in divorce but him stating that he’s not attracted to me, not sleeping with me, AND wants to sleep with other women (even if he doesnt physically act on that urge)...is this emotional abandonment? Is divorce even an option even though I despise it?
I don’t know what to do. I try to be a good Christian wife but what am I supposed to do?
I feel alone and abandoned.
I’m married. I’m a Christian and my husband is not.
I don’t not believe in divorce.
He does not find me attractive at all, calls me fat (I just started a weight Watchers program and going to begin working out, I’m 200lbs at 5’9). He doesn’t even have the slightest interest in marriage counseling or couples therapy. He changed his mind about wanting children (which I was accepting of until the next fact). He used to tell me he just didn’t want to have sex at all until today which he told me he wants to have sex with other women. He is flip flopping right now stating that he doesn’t actually want that, he’s just bored and finds me unattractive to saying he doesn’t know what he wants.
I moved across the world for him.
I don’t believe in divorce but him stating that he’s not attracted to me, not sleeping with me, AND wants to sleep with other women (even if he doesnt physically act on that urge)...is this emotional abandonment? Is divorce even an option even though I despise it?
I don’t know what to do. I try to be a good Christian wife but what am I supposed to do?
I feel alone and abandoned.