- Jun 23, 2019
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- Non-Denom
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- Single
I have a situation that I need help on. I was involved with a man for about 14 years. We have 3 beautiful girls together. I just recently found out that he is a narcissist. Anyways, the day that I found out that I was getting laid off my job in 2017 is the same day that I found out that I was pregnant. My birth control failed(essure). Of course he wanted me to have an abortion, but I chose life. He only went to 3 doctors appointments during my pregnancy and I even found out that he was seeing another female.
I was trying to find work to support our family, but to no avail. He was there for the birth of our daughter, but when the lease was up on our home, he moved into his house and I was homeless. I had to give him our girls until I got myself together. I found a parttime job and dealing with my depression of the break up and being away from my girls, he tried to seek sole custody and child support. He put a restraining order on me, and it was difficult to see my children because of him. So many times I wanted to commit suicide because I felt like God wasnt hearing me.
In January I got a permanent full time position, and in April I signed my name on a lease. I am slowly piecing my house back together. The one thing that I cannot get over is this soul tie that I have with him. Him and the girlfriend are still going strong and she is around my children more than I am.
I know that I am suppose to sing praises that I came out on top with a new job and a place to live, but what about my hurt from the loss of the relationship? How do I let go? Whenever I see him, I have to pretend that everything is okay. That I am at peace.
I was trying to find work to support our family, but to no avail. He was there for the birth of our daughter, but when the lease was up on our home, he moved into his house and I was homeless. I had to give him our girls until I got myself together. I found a parttime job and dealing with my depression of the break up and being away from my girls, he tried to seek sole custody and child support. He put a restraining order on me, and it was difficult to see my children because of him. So many times I wanted to commit suicide because I felt like God wasnt hearing me.
In January I got a permanent full time position, and in April I signed my name on a lease. I am slowly piecing my house back together. The one thing that I cannot get over is this soul tie that I have with him. Him and the girlfriend are still going strong and she is around my children more than I am.
I know that I am suppose to sing praises that I came out on top with a new job and a place to live, but what about my hurt from the loss of the relationship? How do I let go? Whenever I see him, I have to pretend that everything is okay. That I am at peace.
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