We are all sinners, saved by faith, and our sanctification is not yet perfect, although we work on it as much as we can.
I need to qualify my remarks about not needing a Charismatic experience to be saved. I am not Charismatic. I left that movement in 1978, because I become disillusioned with the worldliness, gossip, self-righteousness, and controlling spirits I found there. The interesting thing I found when I went and joined an Anglican church in the city, that I didn't want to stop praying in tongues. I learned then that the Spiritual gifts are not Charismatic at all. They are Bible, and are still highly beneficial to the church for those who want and need for them to be manifested by the Holy Spirit.
But, over the years, I have learned that what used to be the lunatic fringe in the Pentecostal and Charismatic churches in the misuse of the gifts and the kundalini manifestations, have almost become the mainstream, and these things feature very prominently on Youtube, as if to say this is the Charismatic movement. I firmly believe that the chaotic and outlandish manifestations and teaching that we see in the faith movement which is prominent on Youtube, is totally false, and the manifestations are best the flesh and worst, demonic. No wonder we have good Bible teachers teaching against the Charismatic movement, as if what they see on Youtube is all there is of it.
Having said that, being baptised with the Spirit is part and parcel of conversion and Justification, and He is always in us in spite of our ups and downs in progressing in sanctification. The gifts, including tongues and prophecy are secondary and are part of our sanctification and service to Christ, but not part of our Justification.
I believe that the true emotions that accompany the filling and work of the Spirit in us, are love, peace, and joy and these occur in the context of self-control.
If you listen carefully to the teaching of Bethel and the Faith movement, you will notice that the true gospel is not preached at all, and I have seen people who have got up and said that it is important that they base their faith on the finished work of Jesus on the cross, have been escorted out of conference meetings and branded as demonic and against Christ. This leads me to believe that many in the Bethel and Faith movements, although appear to have Charismatic manifestations, are not actually saved and are in bondage to the deception of non-Christian cults that teach the pagan, occult, positive thinking, confession, and faith in faith, to get what they want from God.
If a person has their foundation right in the true gospel and are saved through faith in the real, Biblical Christ who died for them on the cross, then their indwelling of the Holy Spirit will be real and genuine, and they won't need to fall over backwards, shake and jerk to show that they belong to Christ and are filled with the Spirit.