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God has given us His Spirit to make such decisions. To legislate clothing rings of the Mosaic Law.

So you tell us that we should use Godliness as our standard, and follow the Bible - God's word to us. Yet when I ask you to show us, from God's word, evidence of how we should dress in the 21st century, you say "we mustn't legislate clothing otherwise we are under the Mosaic law".

I think the words you are looking for are "I can't".
There is nothing in Scripture to tell us how to dress.

Ask your self this...
How can I be the MOST modest in the sight of God?

Modesty has nothing to do with clothing.
Adam and Eve were not created with clothes.

No, it is a side-track of what some preachers teach or don't teach.
It would seem that women teach as little about modesty as men do.

Are you saying that you are only against women preachers because they don't appear to teach dress code from the pulpit??
a) How can they - when you, yourself, have just said that we "can't legislate on clothing"?
b) that would be a misuse of their calling - no one is saved, helped or discipled by hearing what length dress they "should" wear - in the opinion of the speaker because Scripture doesn't say. Men would stop going to church.
c) I'm sure plenty of women teach about living godly lives - being kind and compassionate, as Scripture says; not judgemental.

I expected more...

If you expect to hear talks on dress/skirt length, when a blouse is too skimpy, or what we should have in our wardrobes, you need to go to a place where they discuss fashion - not a church.
Such discussions may happen in a youth club, or bible study group, in private - they are certainly not appropriate for the pulpit on a Sunday morning when there might be non Christians in the congregation.
Christians and non Christians would expect to hear the Gospel, and Bible, preached in a church; not a preacher's fetish with what clothes the women are wearing.

They are, however, told "The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things;
That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,
To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed." (Titus 2:3-5)

The words that really stand out to me are..."behavior as becometh holiness", "discreet", and "chaste".

But only for the aged women, apparently - the young can presumably do what they like.
You'll notice it says BEHAVIOUR as becometh holiness, not clothing.
As I've said before, clothing is outward appearance. What matters to God is the heart; what's on the inside.
 
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Ah, so burkhas for everyone, then? Sorry, I don't agree that Christ requires that of us.

Neither do I - but as you wear a cassock on Sunday/in the pulpit, you should be fine.
 
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I think what we are hearing is that Phil W is confessing he is barely able to control himself in the presence of women who are leaving skin exposed, and harbouring resentment towards these women which is coming out in self-righteousness and his psychological defence system ( unbeknown to thimself) to cover himself for the day when he no longer is able to resist so that he does not have to blame himself and continue with his delusions that he sinneth not.
Interesting observation.
But you are almost right...about the first part.
When I see a woman that is immodestly dressed, I can't help but think that the devil is using her to cause men to start lusting over her.
As I have crucified the flesh, with the affections and lusts, (Gal 5:24), lust has no impact on me. (Thanks be to God)

Harboring resentment toward these women?
No, I have only pity for the servants of sin. (John 8:32-34)
God offers so much and they have decided to please only themselves...What a waste.

As for "covering myself" for some future sin...My covering is the word of God, which includes this jewel...
"There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it." (1 Cor 10:13)
I will never be "over" tempted...thanks be to God.
 
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That is one way to explore whether something is a significant theme in the New Testament, and therefore likely to be a frequent focus of preaching/teaching. Modesty clearly isn't.
And look at the results of "preacher's" reticence to LEAD.
They look the other way while the sheep "play with fire".

Context is everything. For example, I know of at least one workplace which forbids long skirts for safety reasons. (Long trousers are fine).
That is a place a Christian woman wouldn't work.
God is capable of finding her a job where she can be modestly attired.

Ah. So "totally modest" might be less than the most modest option possible? So who then decides what is "modest enough"?
Your fight against the will of God is a losing proposition. (1 Tim 2:9)
But, then again, when a woman tries to teach a man...it never goes well.
 
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So you tell us that we should use Godliness as our standard, and follow the Bible - God's word to us. Yet when I ask you to show us, from God's word, evidence of how we should dress in the 21st century, you say "we mustn't legislate clothing otherwise we are under the Mosaic law".

I think the words you are looking for are "I can't".
There is nothing in Scripture to tell us how to dress.
My comment was in reference to your "show us a scripture that says exactly how long a skirt should be...".
It is written..."In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;" (1 Tim 2:9)
And..."To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed." (Titus 2:5)
Modest apparel, discreet, chaste...

Modesty has nothing to do with clothing.
Adam and Eve were not created with clothes.
Yet, after the sin, God gave them clothes...didn't He?

Are you saying that you are only against women preachers because they don't appear to teach dress code from the pulpit??
a) How can they - when you, yourself, have just said that we "can't legislate on clothing"?
b) that would be a misuse of their calling - no one is saved, helped or discipled by hearing what length dress they "should" wear - in the opinion of the speaker because Scripture doesn't say. Men would stop going to church.
c) I'm sure plenty of women teach about living godly lives - being kind and compassionate, as Scripture says; not judgemental.
I'm not saying that at all.
The reason woman CANNOT teach or take authority over the man is because scripture declares it. (1 Tim 2:12)
Were women allowed to preach to men, one who was of God would never collude with those trying to undress women in public.

If you expect to hear talks on dress/skirt length, when a blouse is too skimpy, or what we should have in our wardrobes, you need to go to a place where they discuss fashion - not a church.
Such discussions may happen in a youth club, or bible study group, in private - they are certainly not appropriate for the pulpit on a Sunday morning when there might be non Christians in the congregation.
Christians and non Christians would expect to hear the Gospel, and Bible, preached in a church; not a preacher's fetish with what clothes the women are wearing.
I'm sorry to hear your "church" experience has nothing to do with real life.
Frankly these issues should have been ingrained since youth at home; but mothers who are servants of "style" would have no reason to bring their daughter up in holiness and modesty.

But only for the aged women, apparently - the young can presumably do what they like.
You'll notice it says BEHAVIOUR as becometh holiness, not clothing.
As I've said before, clothing is outward appearance. What matters to God is the heart; what's on the inside.
Too bad you forgot to include the next two verses...
"That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,
To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed." (Titus 2:4-5)
If one's outward demeanor illustrates disregard for Godliness...so does the inside.

 
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And look at the results of "preacher's" reticence to LEAD.
They look the other way while the sheep "play with fire".

Not at all. But leaders know how to prioritise what's important.

That is a place a Christian woman wouldn't work.
God is capable of finding her a job where she can be modestly attired.

I'm sure plenty of Christian women work there... the point is, adhering to safety requirements isn't "immodest."

Your fight against the will of God is a losing proposition. (1 Tim 2:9)
But, then again, when a woman tries to teach a man...it never goes well.

I'm not fighting against the will of God.

Here's what I see happening in this discussion. You have your own, arbitrary, personal standard of modesty (fine, we probably all do). You are seeking to tell everyone else that we ought to accept your personal and arbitrary standard of modesty as a token of our Christian identity, and we're rejecting that. I suggest that you not then sink to personal attacks on those who disagree with you.
 
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Not at all. But leaders know how to prioritise what's important.
And the protections offered by God aren't important?

I'm sure plenty of Christian women work there... the point is, adhering to safety requirements isn't "immodest."
Adhering to things found unGodly isn't a requirement either.
You are pandering to the norms of a corrupt and lost world.
Why?


I'm not fighting against the will of God.
I've submitted the scriptures.

Here's what I see happening in this discussion. You have your own, arbitrary, personal standard of modesty (fine, we probably all do). You are seeking to tell everyone else that we ought to accept your personal and arbitrary standard of modesty as a token of our Christian identity, and we're rejecting that. I suggest that you not then sink to personal attacks on those who disagree with you.
I have included the biblical basis for "my" standards.
Where have you found it written that women can dress in a manner that appeases a world that is doomed to destruction?
 
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And the protections offered by God aren't important?

I find the claims you make on this point to be unsupportable.

Adhering to things found unGodly isn't a requirement either.
You are pandering to the norms of a corrupt and lost world.
Why?

I don't find anything unGodly in what I described. If I'd described a requirement to work in nothing but lingerie, for example, I'd find the claim of "pandering to the norms of a corrupt and lost world" credible. But banning long skirts where they're a hazard is nowhere near being in the same category.

I've submitted the scriptures.

I have included the biblical basis for "my" standards.
Where have you found it written that women can dress in a manner that appeases a world that is doomed to destruction?

The Scriptures you've quoted in an attempt to establish a modesty code don't actually do so in any detail.

Interestingly, I have not tried to specify any particular modesty code, so on what basis do you claim that I'm suggesting "that women can dress in a manner that appeases a world that is doomed to destruction"?

If anything, I'm suggesting that Christian women are able to make their own decisions about modesty, in their own contexts, and with their own consciences; and that it's wrong for you to label some of them "not Christian" because their decisions aren't what you think they should be.
 
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My comment was in reference to your "show us a scripture that says exactly how long a skirt should be...".
It is written..."In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;" (1 Tim 2:9)
And..."To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed." (Titus 2:5)
Modest apparel, discreet, chaste...

But you can give no Scriptural definition of modesty.
So in the absence of Scriptural guidance, we only have your opinion to go on. What you say is immodest may be perfectly acceptable to others - and even to God, since you can find no verse which says otherwise.

Yet, after the sin, God gave them clothes...didn't He?

They had already stitched fig leaves together to make clothes because they were ashamed of their nakedness, Genesis 3:7. God just gave them more permanent clothes from animal skin. God provided clothes, and shed blood, for THEM, because they felt ashamed - not because he was.

I'm not saying that at all.
The reason woman CANNOT teach or take authority over the man is because scripture declares it. (1 Tim 2:12)

Paul says in one verse that he does not allow it, yet he allowed Priscilla to teach Apollos.
So, is he contradicting himself, or was there some other reason why he said that?

Were women allowed to preach to men, one who was of God would never collude with those trying to undress women in public.

There are many examples in Scripture of women proclaiming God's word to Men.
Deborah gave Barak a word from God and told him what he should do.
When Josiah found the book of the law, he told his priests to go to "enquire of the Lord". Those male priests went to a woman, 2 Kings 22:11-14, who told them what God said. The king listened and there was a revival in the land.
The woman at the well - who had just been told Jesus was the Messiah - went back to her town and told the men, John 4:29.
Mary Magdalene was the first witness to the resurrection, went to tell them men (who were in hiding) and give them a message from Jesus, John 20:17-18.
Paul had female co workers, whom he commended for their work for the Gospel, Romans 16.

I have no idea what your comment about trying to undress women in public means.

I'm sorry to hear your "church" experience has nothing to do with real life.
Frankly these issues should have been ingrained since youth at home; but mothers who are servants of "style" would have no reason to bring their daughter up in holiness and modesty.

You have no Biblical definition of modesty - none.
You just quote a verse with the word in and then tell us what YOU think it means.

Show me from Scripture what modesty means regarding dress - knee length skirts/dresses, below the knee, ankle length? What about calf length but with a slit in the side; or knee length at the front and below the knee at the back? According to Scripture, is that modest?

If one's outward demeanor illustrates disregard for Godliness...so does the inside.

Not at all.
A Christian woman can wear a calf length skirt and be dishonest, have lustful thoughts, be having an affair with someone else's husband etc. How do you know that wearing a long skirt isn't a clue that she is covering something up - and not just her legs?
A Christian woman can wear a mini skirt and be pure, kind, do charitable works and worship God.
 
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But you can give no Scriptural definition of modesty.
I just provided two, 1 Tim 2 and Titus 2.

So in the absence of Scriptural guidance, we only have your opinion to go on. What you say is immodest may be perfectly acceptable to others - and even to God, since you can find no verse which says otherwise.
"Others" don't matter when God spells out His will concerning women.
Men too are given guidelines we must adhere to.
Even children are given verses for guidance.
As this whole "modesty" side tack was spawned from the attempt to ignore one scripture,1 Tim 2:12, any dispute regarding peripheral issues constitutes only misdirection and subterfuge.

To allow or champion a woman preacher violates 1 Tim 2:12.

Not at all.
A Christian woman can wear a calf length skirt and be dishonest, have lustful thoughts, be having an affair with someone else's husband etc. How do you know that wearing a long skirt isn't a clue that she is covering something up - and not just her legs?
A Christian woman can wear a mini skirt and be pure, kind, do charitable works and worship God.
Your definition of a "Christian woman" includes dishonest, lustful, and actual adultery.
With those problems, their immodest dress won't be the only think blocking their names from being in the book of life.
 
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To allow or champion a woman preacher violates 1 Tim 2:12.
Firstly let me congratulate you for your perseverance. I understand clearly that nothing that anyone may say will convince you otherwise. I do ask myself the question is it valid to take one verse of scripture to determine that the position of women in the Church?

This point of itself seems at odds with some of the other Pauline material, and in part on that basis the suggestion has been made by some scholars that the letter to Timothy may have been ascribed to Paul rather than have been written by Paul. Of itself that does not discount the canonicity of the letter which has been received as part of the New Testament essentially universally from ancient times.

Paul argued in Christ there was neither male nor female, slave nor free, which was much more in keeping with the idea of an egalitarian church. One has a sense of Paul arguing that the old order is passing away. In Romans we get the sense that Phoebe has some ministerial role not distinguished especially from the men who did.

In Acts we read that it seems most likely that the first European convert to the faith was Lydia of Thyatira, and we note that some of Lydia's apparent independence is also somewhat counter cultural.

The ministry of women in the Gospels of course is far and away clear in the role of Mary, Mother of the Lord, whose declaration 'behold I am the servant of the Lord's, let it be to me according to your word' has been a pattern of response understood by thousands if not millions of those who exercise ministry in the Church. Mary and Martha the kinsfolk of Lazarus model to avenues of ministry, in prayer, listening and in service. The woman at the well was despatched to the Samaritan town in a complex passage that has much to do with Jesus as the fulfillment of not simply the Jewish expectation but also the Samaritan hope. Mary Magdalene is around an about the group from early in the ministry of Jesus, and to her is entrusted the task of telling the disciples of the resurrection.

The verse in Timothy contains the word αὐθεντεῖν which you are relying on. This is the only place the word is used in The New Testament (also therefore the only time Paul used it if he indeed wrote 1 Timothy) and this make it difficult to determine a clear and certain meaning. As used outside the New Testament it seems to imply total ownership, mastery, and indeed the right to kill, and at times to imply outrite autocracy (which would be counter our understanding of Christian ministry).

And we need to have some account of the situation of the writing, which I think is understood written to Timothy about the Church in Ephesus. We can not say with any certainty that Paul was intending to lay down a principle for all time and for places and for all circumstances in which the Church may find itself. It may well be that in the particular situation that Timothy faced this may well have been a sage approach fitting in with the circumstances and cultural norms of the day.

It is not in a spirit of disobedience, or with a sense of trying to overthrow the will of God, that many of us have come to conclude that God is calling women to ministry in many and various ways. My personal view is that women have brought something special to the charism of ministry and we are richer as a result.

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I just provided two, 1 Tim 2 and Titus 2.

They tell us to dress modestly, not what that means.
Long skirt? On the knee skirt? Long sleeved, high necked blouse? Jacket? No jacket? What is modest for one may be restrictive for another; what is normal for one, but be unthinkable for another.
There is no Scriptural description of "modesty", and when I asked you specifically about teaching on women's clothing, you said that we weren't to legislate.

So the fact remains; the Bible gives no definition of modesty in dress - any definition, therefore, is yours, not Scripture's.

"Others" don't matter when God spells out His will concerning women.

He doesn't "spell out his will concerning women".
If he did, he wouldn't have used so many of them to proclaim his word and serve him.

As this whole "modesty" side tack was spawned from the attempt to ignore one scripture,1 Tim 2:12, any dispute regarding peripheral issues constitutes only misdirection and subterfuge.

If I remember correctly, I said that if you are taking 1 Timothy 2:12 literally, then you must also take other Scriptures literally - including those that say women should not wear gold or pearls, should dress modestly and not have braided hair.
How can you expect women to take this literally, when you can't even give us a Scriptural definition of "modest dress"?
Similarly, Paul says that long hair is disgraceful on a man. As he doesn't tell how long "long" is - an inch, inch and a half, collar length - how can you obey that verse? You might have hair just below your ears; some might say that is too long, whereas other men have hair that is much longer. If I judged your devotion to Christ by your hair, I'd be judgemental and would almost certainly get it wrong.
Same with women.

And if you agree that we cannot take all verses literally, why single out 1 Tim 2:12?
God allowed, and chose, women to proclaim, announce and teach his word; I gave you some examples.

To allow or champion a woman preacher violates 1 Tim 2:12.

In your opinion.
Thousands of male clergy and theologians disagree.

Your definition of a "Christian woman" includes dishonest, lustful, and actual adultery.

No, I'm not defining a Christian woman by adultery or lustful thoughts; I'm not saying that all Christian women will be like that.
I'm saying that how a woman looks on the outside is not a reflection of what is going on on the inside. That if a woman wears a long skirt, has long hair and looks modest and nice, you cannot assume that this means that she is Christian, pure, God-fearing etc - she may not even be a Christian. Similarly, if a woman wears a short skirt - which I guess you would define as "immodest" - you can't assume that she is a party girl, likes drinking or anything else.

What is modest for one woman may be restrictive for another, and you have no Scriptural definition, or description, of what counts as "modest."
 
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The mark for dressing "modestly" should be to avoid causing lust in men, as jesus prescribed. Matthew 5:28

Christ said a man looking lustfully toward a woman commits adultery in his heart, so he shouldn't do it. It's only fair women assist us keep Christs commandment by dressing to avoid causing the temptation of lust.
 
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Firstly let me congratulate you for your perseverance. I understand clearly that nothing that anyone may say will convince you otherwise. I do ask myself the question is it valid to take one verse of scripture to determine that the position of women in the Church?

Is "only" one command not to tease the dog not enough?
Is "only" one command not to touch a hot stove not enough?
I have found that folks who won't listen the first time seldom will after two or three either.
One verse in scripture is quite enough for those who believe "All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness:" (2 Tim 3:16)


This point of itself seems at odds with some of the other Pauline material, and in part on that basis the suggestion has been made by some scholars that the letter to Timothy may have been ascribed to Paul rather than have been written by Paul. Of itself that does not discount the canonicity of the letter which has been received as part of the New Testament essentially universally from ancient times.
Doesn't that make you question the motives of those trying to discredit it then?

Paul argued in Christ there was neither male nor female, slave nor free, which was much more in keeping with the idea of an egalitarian church. One has a sense of Paul arguing that the old order is passing away. In Romans we get the sense that Phoebe has some ministerial role not distinguished especially from the men who did.
Were the contexts of both scriptures the same, ie...who is leading who?...your point might be acceptable.
But it isn't the same so is not.
The only thing "egalitarian" about the church is that all people have the ability, and duty to serve God with their whole being.
That a true turn from sin is commanded of all, without respect of persons.
And that salvation is there/here fo all who will love God above all else and their neighbor as they love themselves.

Paul writes..."Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing." (Eph 5:24)
Is that in line with your view of egalitarianism?
As the head of the Christ is God, and the head of man is Christ, why do some balk at men being the head of women?
Any shift in this paradigm equates to idolatry.

In Acts we read that it seems most likely that the first European convert to the faith was Lydia of Thyatira, and we note that some of Lydia's apparent independence is also somewhat counter cultural.
Independently doing laundry?
I guess...

The ministry of women in the Gospels of course is far and away clear in the role of Mary, Mother of the Lord, whose declaration 'behold I am the servant of the Lord's, let it be to me according to your word' has been a pattern of response understood by thousands if not millions of those who exercise ministry in the Church.
Mary was happy to glorify God by not rejecting the role He had for her...motherhood.
The role for women now is subjection to their husbands and raising the kids with love and the nurture of the Lord.
They are also charged with teaching the younger women..."That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,
To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed." (Titus 2:4-5)

Mary and Martha the kinsfolk of Lazarus model to avenues of ministry, in prayer, listening and in service. The woman at the well was despatched to the Samaritan town in a complex passage that has much to do with Jesus as the fulfillment of not simply the Jewish expectation but also the Samaritan hope. Mary Magdalene is around an about the group from early in the ministry of Jesus, and to her is entrusted the task of telling the disciples of the resurrection.
What they modeled was subjection to Him who loved us and ended up dying for us.

The verse in Timothy contains the word αὐθεντεῖν which you are relying on. This is the only place the word is used in The New Testament (also therefore the only time Paul used it if he indeed wrote 1 Timothy) and this make it difficult to determine a clear and certain meaning. As used outside the New Testament it seems to imply total ownership, mastery, and indeed the right to kill, and at times to imply outrite autocracy (which would be counter our understanding of Christian ministry).
You didn't write what word you are parsing (?).
I think you mean the word "subjection" in 1 Tim 2:11.
Paul's writings here go hand in glove with every other "picture" of hierarchical tiers in scripture.
God-Jesus-man-woman.
God-Jesus-church-man.

And we need to have some account of the situation of the writing, which I think is understood written to Timothy about the Church in Ephesus. We can not say with any certainty that Paul was intending to lay down a principle for all time and for places and for all circumstances in which the Church may find itself. It may well be that in the particular situation that Timothy faced this may well have been a sage approach fitting in with the circumstances and cultural norms of the day.
What if anything has changed since those days?
The cultural norms have shifted ever lower with each passing generation of God haters, making these days much worse than Paul's ever were.
But you know what?
God has NOT changed.

It is not in a spirit of disobedience, or with a sense of trying to overthrow the will of God, that many of us have come to conclude that God is calling women to ministry in many and various ways. My personal view is that women have brought something special to the charism of ministry and we are richer as a result.
Peace be to the house
If your words are true, it's time to repent of your "views", and step away from the edge of the cliff.
 
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The mark for dressing "modestly" should be to avoid causing lust in men, as jesus prescribed. Matthew 5:28

Christ said a man looking lustfully toward a woman commits adultery in his heart, so he shouldn't do it. It's only fair women assist us keep Christs commandment by dressing to avoid causing the temptation of lust.

There are some men who will lust after women whatever they are wearing - don't tell me that women in Arab countries never get raped.
Women can't be held responsible for men's thoughts and shouldn't have to restrict what they wear in case the poor males of the species can't control their desires.
 
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There are some men who will lust after women whatever they are wearing - don't tell me that women in Arab countries never get raped.
Women can't be held responsible for men's thoughts and shouldn't have to restrict what they wear in case the poor males of the species can't control their desires.




Women are responsible for how they present themselves and if they claim to be a Christian they would respect Christs teachings and help support the system he advocates,by dressing in a manner which does not cause the temptation of lust.

Appealing to Islamic countries for some kind of a loophole to void Christs teachings isn't very Christ-like.
 
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Paul writes..."Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing." (Eph 5:24)
Is that in line with your view of egalitarianism?
As the head of the Christ is God, and the head of man is Christ, why do some balk at men being the head of women?
Any shift in this paradigm equates to idolatry.

You are arguing that someone being the "head" of something implies subjection, but that is not an orthodox view of the Trinity, in which "none is before, or after another; none is greater, or less than another. But the whole three Persons are coeternal, and coequal." (The quote is taken from the Athanasian Creed). So the Son is coequal with the Father, and likewise the wife should be coequal with her husband. Any other way of presenting "headship" distorts the doctrine of the Trinity.

Independently doing laundry?
I guess...

She was a "dealer in purple cloth" (a merchant of a luxury item) in her own right.

The role for women now is subjection to their husbands and raising the kids with love and the nurture of the Lord.

What of single women? Or is it not valid for a woman to choose not to marry? (And how would you square that with 1 Corinthians 7:8?)
 
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Is "only" one command not to tease the dog not enough?
Is "only" one command not to touch a hot stove not enough?
I have found that folks who won't listen the first time seldom will after two or three either.
One verse in scripture is quite enough for those who believe "All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness:" (2 Tim 3:16)
The tradition rabbinical method required two witnesses, and in terms of expounding the scriptures that meant the law and the prophets. They were quite careful about the process.

πᾶσα γραφὴ in 2 Timothy 3:16 in its context suggests that it is referring to the Old Testament and given the experience of the times almost certainly it would be taken to mean the LXX (Septuagint) which includes the deuterocanonicals. I quite seriously doubt that the author had any idea that they would be taken to be implying that they were referring to their own writings.

Doesn't that make you question the motives of those trying to discredit it then?
That could be a valid point, however there is a weight of scholarship which draws in conclusions based on the weight of evidence before them. If the letter to Timothy is in some way different to what has been observed elsewhere, then one must allow that there is a strong possibility that there were particular circumstances that Timothy was dealing with.

Independently doing laundry?
I guess...
I am assuming you understand my immediate response to this absurd statement, however I will bless and not curse, how ever I would like to let you know that your male chauvinism is showing.

You didn't write what word you are parsing (?).
I think you mean the word "subjection" in 1 Tim 2:11.
Paul's writings here go hand in glove with every other "picture" of hierarchical tiers in scripture.
God-Jesus-man-woman.
God-Jesus-church-man.

The word I was discussing was αὐθεντεῖν

It does seem to me that the barriers are broken down, Jesus is God, Jesus is truly human, and the enmity between man and woman (a mark of the fall) has been done away with for in Christ there is neither male nor female.

God has NOT changed.
You are of course on this point 100% correct. At the beginning of the very first second that ever was, God had a history, and at the end of the last second that ever will be, God has a future. Both time and being only have meaning in the context of God.

2 Corinthians 5:16-21 From now on, therefore, we regard no one from a human point of view; even though we once knew Christ from a human point of view, we know him no longer in that way. So if anyone is in Christ, there is a new creation: everything old has passed away; see, everything has become new! All this is from God, who reconciled us to himself through Christ, and has given us the ministry of reconciliation; that is, in Christ God was reconciling the world to himself, not counting their trespasses against them, and entrusting the message of reconciliation to us. So we are ambassadors for Christ, since God is making his appeal through us; we entreat you on behalf of Christ, be reconciled to God. For our sake he made him to be sin who knew no sin, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God.​

This message of reconciliation we are called to share has not changed, for it is eternal. We, the church, are called to proclaim the everlasting gospel in a world of time and space. In the world of 1st century Eastern Europe and the Levant the subjugation of women was a cultural norm. Jesus did not come into the world to endorse the cultural norms of that day and impose them on eternity.

1 Corinthians 19-23 For though I am free with respect to all, I have made myself a slave to all, so that I might win more of them. To the Jews I became as a Jew, in order to win Jews. To those under the law I became as one under the law (though I myself am not under the law) so that I might win those under the law. To those outside the law I became as one outside the law (though I am not free from God’s law but am under Christ’s law) so that I might win those outside the law. To the weak I became weak, so that I might win the weak. I have become all things to all people, so that I might by any means save some. I do it all for the sake of the gospel, so that I may share in its blessings.​

I think this passage is quite informative about Paul and how he thought about culture. He sought to work within it in order that the light of the gospel might be seen. We all know that there are many counter cultural aspects to the message (love your enemies, pray for those who persecute you ...) yet it seems to me that Paul wanted people to hear the message where they were, physically (hence the missionary journeys, and culturally as he explains in this passage.

I am a long way from convinced that in the context of today Paul would do anything but support and endorse the ministry of women.

Peace in Christ
 
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You are arguing that someone being the "head" of something implies subjection, but that is not an orthodox view of the Trinity, in which "none is before, or after another; none is greater, or less than another. But the whole three Persons are coeternal, and coequal." (The quote is taken from the Athanasian Creed). So the Son is coequal with the Father, and likewise the wife should be coequal with her husband. Any other way of presenting "headship" distorts the doctrine of the Trinity.
Your Athanasian creed is apparently not of God.
The Son is not coequal with the Father. Not yet. (1 Cor 15:28)
The church is not coequal with the Son.
Woman is not coequal with man.
The wife is not coequal with the husband.

Each have their role to fulfill.

What of single women? Or is it not valid for a woman to choose not to marry? (And how would you square that with 1 Corinthians 7:8?)
They are under subjection to God...the One who formed her to be a man's helpmate in the beginning.
Having no "husband" head over her doesn't eliminate the fact that God is still over her...and He says women cannot teach or usurp authority over men.
If she chooses not to marry, she should remain in her father or brother's home...or else she will have lost the source of teaching cited in 1 Cor 14:35.[/QUOTE]
 
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