Hi Marilyn:
Well I can only defend what the word says:
2 Corinthians 11:2
For I am jealous over you with godly jealousy: for I have
espoused you to one husband, that I may present you as a chaste virgin to Christ.
We are engaged to jesus!
Revelation 21:9
And there came unto me one of the seven angels which had the seven vials full of the seven last plagues, and talked with me, saying, Come hither, I will shew thee the
bride, the Lamb's wife.
Revelation 22:17
And the Spirit and the
bride say, Come. And let him that heareth say, Come. And let him that is athirst come. And whosoever will, let him take the water of life freely.
Ephesians 5:
25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
26 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,
27 That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.
28 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.
29 For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:
30 For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones.
31 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.
32 This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church.
Mystery is musterion which means something hidden that Paul revealed!
As for New Jerusalem- it is our eternal destination! Rev. 21 makes that clear!
But as to all these future events. I do not worry. For wherever we dwell, we will be with Christ and that is heaven! I know what I believe based on SCripture with no private interpretation, but I do not worry-God will care for us perfectly!