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I am not only just feeling annoyed, but I really see my husband as a pest and he thinks he's "a normal healthy man" for being so perverted---I doesn't ever question anything he ever does beyond worldly standards, and he makes excuses for this.
To sum him up: I am grossed out paranoid about being touched or sneaked up on by predators in my home sometimes.....all because my husband refuses to act civil and he grabs me whenever he's got a chance. I cannot put my guard down to just relax unless he's left for work.
You also can't ask a simple question without it going to a sexual innuendo. It's so annoying!!!! like I feel his brain operates only to have sex some days and has no other purpose but to breed.
Because of both his only preferring things that are "anti-cancer" and his sexual perverted behaviour, I don't feel he has any real personality or a higher sense of life purpose at all. He thinks because I am his wife, anything he does isn't considered inappropriate, he says this, no matter what he says or does "it's perfectly normal between husband and wife"---in a creepy tone of voice that makes me so disgusted I want to back up and run the hay away.
I feel the yucks just thinking about it......and this is def' gas lighting! how would he know what is "normal"? he just is such a creep some days. He even used my telephoto camera lens one day to peek into the condo windows of other apartments because a lot of stupid woman don't close their blinds----but him purposefully looking is def' sinful and perved behaviour, it takes actual effort to peer into a window across the street. It is no way an "accident" to see anything.
Then he tries to lie to me and speak on my behalf at once" you used to like it!"
NO, I NEVER liked it! He's taking away my sense of consent and expects me to "want" him? YUCK. "But I buy groceries"...so what? you'd be buying the groceries even if you were single, for goodness sakes, and you don't even know how to cook your so called "anti-cancer food, you make ME do it for you and get angry when it doesn't meet your "standards". I still buy my own food that he won't "approve of for being healthy anti-cancer"....such as "Radiation fish" or "unhealthy processed" salad dressings.
He's also a control freak and he's always up to something to make sure hes "in control", either his tone of voice, or "don't worry, I got this" he'll say, as he does something for weird reasons......he does the exact opposite of what people want and says ""trust me" or "don't worry". He's even said that to a boss once in a text without telling them what he was doing, and he wonders why he got fired? instead, he pulled the "they are racist" card instead of "maybe I was being too cocky and full of myself"
?I am not only just feeling annoyed, but I really see my husband as a pest and he thinks he's "a normal healthy man" for being so perverted---I doesn't ever question anything he ever does beyond worldly standards, and he makes excuses for this.
To sum him up: I am grossed out paranoid about being touched or sneaked up on by predators in my home sometimes.....all because my husband refuses to act civil and he grabs me whenever he's got a chance. I cannot put my guard down to just relax unless he's left for work.
You also can't ask a simple question without it going to a sexual innuendo. It's so annoying!!!! like I feel his brain operates only to have sex some days and has no other purpose but to breed.
Because of both his only preferring things that are "anti-cancer" and his sexual perverted behaviour, I don't feel he has any real personality or a higher sense of life purpose at all. He thinks because I am his wife, anything he does isn't considered inappropriate, he says this, no matter what he says or does "it's perfectly normal between husband and wife"---in a creepy tone of voice that makes me so disgusted I want to back up and run the hay away.
I feel the yucks just thinking about it......and this is def' gas lighting! how would he know what is "normal"? he just is such a creep some days. He even used my telephoto camera lens one day to peek into the condo windows of other apartments because a lot of stupid woman don't close their blinds----but him purposefully looking is def' sinful and perved behaviour, it takes actual effort to peer into a window across the street. It is no way an "accident" to see anything.
Then he tries to lie to me and speak on my behalf at once" you used to like it!"
NO, I NEVER liked it! He's taking away my sense of consent and expects me to "want" him? YUCK. "But I buy groceries"...so what? you'd be buying the groceries even if you were single, for goodness sakes, and you don't even know how to cook your so called "anti-cancer food, you make ME do it for you and get angry when it doesn't meet your "standards". I still buy my own food that he won't "approve of for being healthy anti-cancer"....such as "Radiation fish" or "unhealthy processed" salad dressings.
He's also a control freak and he's always up to something to make sure hes "in control", either his tone of voice, or "don't worry, I got this" he'll say, as he does something for weird reasons......he does the exact opposite of what people want and says ""trust me" or "don't worry". He's even said that to a boss once in a text without telling them what he was doing, and he wonders why he got fired? instead, he pulled the "they are racist" card instead of "maybe I was being too cocky and full of myself"
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