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well hey · May 26, 2019

hi
I am in a really lonely season in my life. I feel so alone, I dont have freinds right now as people do not care about me even church people dont care. And even when i get close to someone, i feel so alone (like a female friend) even when im in a room full or crowded people i feel alone. Even my mom who i love so much, being around her feels alone. Im just alone and lonely. I used to pray to God, "God please take away this loneliness or get me a husband." If i didnt feel so alone and lost and want to cuddle, i wouldnt need a husband. so that has been my prayer. I feel like im old enough to have a husband lol. Im 35. Even though I have an anime profile pic. Im not a kid. I would love to have an awesome connection with someone-a best freind. And i dont have that and desperatly need it. This season has been going on for several years. Since i was 28. The lonliness is killing me inside. I just want a husband or some kind of light to fill my heart, and warmth. Please dont tell me 'you are not alone, Jesus is with you." I already know that.

WESTOZZIE · May 26, 2019

Feel for you sister.....you already know where to turn....so not much I can say. Big hugs to you!!

Stranger36147 · May 26, 2019

It's okay. I'll be your husband. I'm kind of ugly though so I hope you can deal with that.

Tigger45 · May 26, 2019

Lord have mercy :pray:

well hey · May 26, 2019

thx. And thanks for the marriage proposal, stranger. lol

Sam91 · May 26, 2019

We are never alone <3 Christ is always with us. (Edit: oops just reread what you said and you said not to say it. Sorry.) Be careful hoping for a husband. If you have the wrong one you could end up feeling more alone than ever, with a lot more stress and pressure in your life. This feeling can open you up to making mistakes. Please learn to feel content the way you are. (It'll feel better in the time until you meet someone and will leave you less vulnerable to a wolf in sheep's clothing.)

We are social beings, tactile ones too. One of the world's messages is that we need a certain amount of touch a day to feel complete. However, God can meet and fill all those desires, even taking away the need.

Also, maybe you could try volunteering in a Christian organisation where you can meet new people and make new connections. I'm an introvert and find that its easier to make friends working alongside people. I don't know if you are a hugger or not but hugging people on greeting might help you feel more connected. God bless you Sister.

well hey · May 26, 2019

Stranger36147 said:
It's okay. I'll be your husband. I'm kind of ugly though so I hope you can deal with that.

You can chat w/ me if you like = ) how old are you?

Stranger36147 · May 26, 2019

well hey said:
You can chat w/ me if you like = ) how old are you?

I'm 31.

well hey · May 26, 2019

cool. If you want to chat through I.M. you can meet me on fb, do you have it?

Brotherly Spirit · May 26, 2019

I love you sister in Christ! Though I don't have the answer, I prayed God does and will in the Lord Jesus help you find a companion. Just know we all struggle with relationships in life like we do even with our relationship with Jesus. So it does require our faith to actively seek knowing God personally and people too. And relationships are complicated as it involved mutual back and forth to develop and maintain, not always ideal so be careful what you pray for, lol. God bless well hey!

P.s. I'm not a great communicator and struggle to have relationships too, but feel welcomed to message me or leave a comment on my profile. Even let me know if there's a topic posted that you want others to participate with you and I'll do my best. Not looking to get married, but I'll be your brother and friend.

Stranger36147 · May 26, 2019

sea5763 · May 26, 2019

well hey · May 26, 2019

sea5763 said:
I pray that you find a kind and loving Christian husband. Who knows, maybe you and Stranger36147 will get married

lol thanks. Ur profile pic is so strange and i lov it lol

sea5763 · May 26, 2019

LynnSmith · May 26, 2019

Praying you will be brought out of this season soon. Praying that during it you will draw close to God to see His will.

Mydreams · May 26, 2019

Lord bless well hey, and this prayer, in Jesus gracious name, Amen!

SnowTiger · May 27, 2019

I hope and pray that you will find the love you are looking for! Dear God, please bless well hey.

LoricaLady · May 28, 2019

A husband might or might not make you feel less alone. If there is some underlying issue, some stronghold of pain (maybe from the past, from childhood?) gripping you, maybe not. I pray you will be given insight and guidance as to what to do to have fellowship and good company and an end to loneliness in whatever ways the Father knows are best for you personally.

YeshuaBought · May 29, 2019

Jesus is with you, and many Christians support you. I have been there, and am there right now.

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