Since my 20s have been struggling with depression and loss of meaning and purpose in life.
I have been to a few counsellors both secular and christian over the intervening years. The difficulty sometimes is I just don't know what is wrong. For reasons I am not sure of I haven't always had good experience under christian counselling.
There seem few even amongst christians who have primarily christian approach incorporating The Bible, The Work and Gifts of the Holy Spirit, Prayer.
I have been looking over local counsellors and organisations again to see if there is anyone that might be worth approaching.
Again and again I see people listed as christian counsellors, but when I look up their website, they say that they offer some sort of 'Person Centred' approach. On the face of it that doesn't tell one much. But I understand the Person Centred model to come from Carl Rogers originally (I don't know how much it still resembles his original approach today).
I have done quite a bit of reading on the various counseling modalities to understand them better. About Carl Rogers, he came from a conservative protestant home, but eventually moved in the direction of liberal christianity at first studying to be a minister - but said he believed Jesus to be a man like other men and not divine. Following that he broke with christianity saying "he wanted to help humanity without being inhibited by commitment to a fixed set of beliefs whose truth was not obvious to him." He said experience rather than other people's, or his own ideas was his highest authority
Roger Hurding (Roots and Shoots) writes that "Roger's affirmation of either self or process parts company with God's self-disclosure about human nature. Behind these Rogerian concepts is the baleful idea of autonomy, that men and women can be, and should be, completely self-governing with respect to their destiny."
I can't see how a christian counsellor can reconcile Rogerian counselling with for instance the Bible's teaching on the Lordship of Christ? Perhaps if the counsellor has a strong faith, they find they can integrate aspects of it with their christian counselling, but I'd be concerned that some don't have a very developed Christian Mind / Worldview in the first instance, and therefore may have absorbed the Rogerian ideas rather uncritically.
I don't know how much Person centred counselling today differs from Rogers original vision of it and whether there is more scope for christian to make use of its theories without compromising their christian faith?
I have been to a few counsellors both secular and christian over the intervening years. The difficulty sometimes is I just don't know what is wrong. For reasons I am not sure of I haven't always had good experience under christian counselling.
There seem few even amongst christians who have primarily christian approach incorporating The Bible, The Work and Gifts of the Holy Spirit, Prayer.
I have been looking over local counsellors and organisations again to see if there is anyone that might be worth approaching.
Again and again I see people listed as christian counsellors, but when I look up their website, they say that they offer some sort of 'Person Centred' approach. On the face of it that doesn't tell one much. But I understand the Person Centred model to come from Carl Rogers originally (I don't know how much it still resembles his original approach today).
I have done quite a bit of reading on the various counseling modalities to understand them better. About Carl Rogers, he came from a conservative protestant home, but eventually moved in the direction of liberal christianity at first studying to be a minister - but said he believed Jesus to be a man like other men and not divine. Following that he broke with christianity saying "he wanted to help humanity without being inhibited by commitment to a fixed set of beliefs whose truth was not obvious to him." He said experience rather than other people's, or his own ideas was his highest authority
Roger Hurding (Roots and Shoots) writes that "Roger's affirmation of either self or process parts company with God's self-disclosure about human nature. Behind these Rogerian concepts is the baleful idea of autonomy, that men and women can be, and should be, completely self-governing with respect to their destiny."
I can't see how a christian counsellor can reconcile Rogerian counselling with for instance the Bible's teaching on the Lordship of Christ? Perhaps if the counsellor has a strong faith, they find they can integrate aspects of it with their christian counselling, but I'd be concerned that some don't have a very developed Christian Mind / Worldview in the first instance, and therefore may have absorbed the Rogerian ideas rather uncritically.
I don't know how much Person centred counselling today differs from Rogers original vision of it and whether there is more scope for christian to make use of its theories without compromising their christian faith?