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Hi guys :) Ill try to be short with this but here is my story:

I am 26 and for most of my life I have dealt with issues of anxiety, depression, and substance abuse. Some periods I will be sober for months before cycling back into negative behaviours. Lately I have dealt with a period of a few months of heavy alcohol and drug use, and falling back into depression after almost 6 months of good health.

Quite recently I had a dream that led me to feel like Jesus was wanting me to come to him, so this is why I have begun learning about Him. But I have always, and still am, struggling with issues of faith.

I dont know if I truly believe in him, but I want so badly to invite Jesus into my life and have it be true. I have seen so many people with similar situations to mine have their lives completely changed and be saved my reaching out to him. I am at a point where I dont feel I have a choice but to at least try.

But its hard for me to feel like I can accept him and open myself up to him to invite him in, if I am not completely sure I even believe in him.

So i am trying to get to know more about him and become more open to the idea of accepting his help.
 

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Hi guys :) Ill try to be short with this but here is my story:

I am 26 and for most of my life I have dealt with issues of anxiety, depression, and substance abuse. Some periods I will be sober for months before cycling back into negative behaviours. Lately I have dealt with a period of a few months of heavy alcohol and drug use, and falling back into depression after almost 6 months of good health.

Quite recently I had a dream that led me to feel like Jesus was wanting me to come to him, so this is why I have begun learning about Him. But I have always, and still am, struggling with issues of faith.

I dont know if I truly believe in him, but I want so badly to invite Jesus into my life and have it be true. I have seen so many people with similar situations to mine have their lives completely changed and be saved my reaching out to him. I am at a point where I dont feel I have a choice but to at least try.

But its hard for me to feel like I can accept him and open myself up to him to invite him in, if I am not completely sure I even believe in him.

So i am trying to get to know more about him and become more open to the idea of accepting his help.

:heart: God bless you Ryan. Praying for you. (((hug)))
 
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Hi guys :) Ill try to be short with this but here is my story:

I am 26 and for most of my life I have dealt with issues of anxiety, depression, and substance abuse. Some periods I will be sober for months before cycling back into negative behaviours. Lately I have dealt with a period of a few months of heavy alcohol and drug use, and falling back into depression after almost 6 months of good health.

Quite recently I had a dream that led me to feel like Jesus was wanting me to come to him, so this is why I have begun learning about Him. But I have always, and still am, struggling with issues of faith.

I dont know if I truly believe in him, but I want so badly to invite Jesus into my life and have it be true. I have seen so many people with similar situations to mine have their lives completely changed and be saved my reaching out to him. I am at a point where I dont feel I have a choice but to at least try.

But its hard for me to feel like I can accept him and open myself up to him to invite him in, if I am not completely sure I even believe in him.

So i am trying to get to know more about him and become more open to the idea of accepting his help.
Sure! When coming back to Christ, this website helped me deeply;

JESUS CHRIST OUR SAVIOR

Just talk to Him! Sit down with a New Testament, and go through the Gospels first! Get to know Him!
 
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Every journey starts with the first step. Along that journey you may have mountains to climb.

Take each day as it comes with God at the beginning and the end. Be patient. Be faithful.

As you carry your cross in life, remember that Jesus is carrying you. Just remember to trust in God whatever comes your way. You are on a great forum here with friendly Christians and good advice.

God bless you
 
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Every journey starts with the first step. Along that journey you may have mountains to climb.

Take each day as it comes with God at the beginning and the end. Be patient. Be faithful.

As you carry your cross in life, remember that Jesus is carrying you. Just remember to trust in God whatever comes your way. You are on a great forum here for friendly Christians and good advice.

God bless you
 
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Hi guys :) Ill try to be short with this but here is my story:

I am 26 and for most of my life I have dealt with issues of anxiety, depression, and substance abuse. Some periods I will be sober for months before cycling back into negative behaviours. Lately I have dealt with a period of a few months of heavy alcohol and drug use, and falling back into depression after almost 6 months of good health.

Quite recently I had a dream that led me to feel like Jesus was wanting me to come to him, so this is why I have begun learning about Him. But I have always, and still am, struggling with issues of faith.

I dont know if I truly believe in him, but I want so badly to invite Jesus into my life and have it be true. I have seen so many people with similar situations to mine have their lives completely changed and be saved my reaching out to him. I am at a point where I dont feel I have a choice but to at least try.

But its hard for me to feel like I can accept him and open myself up to him to invite him in, if I am not completely sure I even believe in him.

So i am trying to get to know more about him and become more open to the idea of accepting his help.
Anxiety, depression and substance abuse are all symptoms of living life our way. We all have two options in life, we can live our way or God's way. Our way leads to eternal torment in hell and God's way leads to everlasting paradise.

Using drugs opens the door to the spiritual realm, then Demonic spirits get a foothold in your life and cause you to lose your mind. I've seen it happen to many of my friends, some died and others are still physically alive but practically dead.

I struggled with drug addiction for many years, I tried to quit many times but I just couldn't handle the symptoms of heroin withdraw. Life became a constant nightmare, I couldn't get high any more and neither could I handle withdrawal.

I was convinced that there was no hope for me, I tried rehab NA and all kinds of programs but nothing worked, until I finally called upon Jesus to help me.

The last time I used, was a real eye opener. I overdosed alone and I was struggling to breathe, while a demon was laughing at me and mocking me. I wanted to rebuke it but I was paralyzed, I didn't want that thing to have the last laugh.

Then I remembered a bible verse a friend quoted, it was Philippians 4:13 "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me" I used the last bit of energy to call upon Jesus and as soon as I said His name the thing disappeared.

I experienced a miracle that day, I felt like the breath of life was entering into me and reviving me. I put all my trust in Christ from that moment on and He has always remained faithful since.

I hope you don't sink to the depths of depravity, that I did before you put all your trust in Christ. You can't hold on to your sin and have Christ as well, He won't accept a halfhearted commitment. All we have to offer Him is our broken lives and He gives us eternal life.
 
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Hi RyanB92

Here is a Christian (free) Self-help website that might help you with your symptoms and also your search for God:

Rise Above Mental Health Challenges | Free Self-Help to Manage Symptoms of Mental Illness and Addiction
Thanks for sharing that website, it identifies the core issues and offers real solutions.
I spent a lot of money on secular treatment programs for drug addiction. It was a revolving door situation, where I would go into a rehab facility and do the program then come out and relapse again.

The psychiatrists failed to diagnose the root cause of my addiction, which was a fallen sin nature. I meet a Christian guy at work who overcame his addiction using the same techniques as those suggested by the website you shared.

I could have avoided a lot of grief if I had found out the truth earlier, it's a shame that secular medicine doesn't recognize the human condition that believers know as a fallen sin nature. Secular counselors told me that I'm a good person, living in a bad environment. While the truth is, I was a sinner living in rebellion against God in a fallen sinful world.
 
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Thanks for sharing that website, it identifies the core issues and offers real solutions.
I spent a lot of money on secular treatment programs for drug addiction. It was a revolving door situation, where I would go into a rehab facility and do the program then come out and relapse again.

The psychiatrists failed to diagnose the root cause of my addiction, which was a fallen sin nature. I meet a Christian guy at work who overcame his addiction using the same techniques as those suggested by the website you shared.

I could have avoided a lot of grief if I had found out the truth earlier, it's a shame that secular medicine doesn't recognize the human condition that believers know as a fallen sin nature. Secular counselors told me that I'm a good person, living in a bad environment. While the truth is, I was a sinner living in rebellion against God in a fallen sinful world.

Thank you for your response. I'm glad you approve of the website. Most people respond negatively to that kind of info, but I have tried everything myself, and I know that it's the only way to heal. So, I try to help as much as I can.
 
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Jesus is calling you. You should listen to him and stop listening to the other stuff that tells you you're not good enough for Him.

Surrender and submission to the Lord is the source of my sobriety. My first sober day was the day I was saved. You can't do this. But the Lord can.

Praying for you Ryan!
 
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