Recently iv been feeling that god hasn't been helping me that much like before
iv been with god for atleast 1 month why could this be happening?
So there are several possible reasons, and because you gave limited information, I will cover as many I can. You will need to determine for yourself, which answer best fits you.
1. Trials of a new believer.
You said that you have been with the Lord for only a month. It is a well known fact in most Christian congregations, that new believers will generally face hardship right at the start. The fact is, we live in a war zone. A war between Heaven and Hell. And there is nothing the Devil hates more, than a new believer. He is going to try everything he can, to convince you, that this whole G-d thing was a joke, and to get you to give up.
Now I am not a fan of using 'the devil!' as an excuse.... but it is well known that new believers typically will face hardship and resistance when they first turn to G-d.
2. Not knowing the new rules of having the Lord over your life.
As a new believer, sometimes it is possible that you are living in a way that is not G-dly. I'll give you a simple example. I was talking with a girl that had converted to Christianity, and she was complaining after several months, that G-d was not helping her.
Well after asking about the nature of the issue, turns out she was living with her boyfriend unmarried, and they were having massive problems. Well that's sin. G-d isn't going to help you commit sin.
3. Giving up your dreams.
This is the hardest and most difficult part of being a Christian. Most people have a dream of what they want to do in life. But your dream, and the dream G-d has for you, could be very different.
Every Christian has to wrestle with the question of who is in charge of their life. If G-d is in charge of your life, then you may not have the dream that you want. It might be the dream he wants.
All I can tell you about that is, G-d's dream for you, will be better than your dream for you, although it won't feel like it at all.
4. Last of all, life is hard.
Life.... is hard. It's that simple. G-d never promised a bed of roses. There is no place in the Bible where 'if you follow me, money falls out of the sky, and all your needs are met for life'.
David was blessed by G-d... and yet he spend almost 20 years of his life, running from Saul who was trying to kill him.
Life is not going to be easy. Maybe you need to simply endure the troubles you face, and G-d will reward you.
