I have read lots of talk about people giving up masturbation and how God has delivered them from lust. I know God can do all things, but is this achievable? I tried many, many times to give up masturbation, but failed again and again. I even went to a few healing services to get "healed" of masturbation. But I wasn't healed or delivered.
Why?
1. Without masturbation, you are filled with more lustful thoughts all day. You spend more time lusting. But if you touch, you can get through the day with purer thoughts and you can go through the day better.
2. Raging hormones. For those of us younger and not married, raging hormones is a big issue. I often get prolonged erections and its so embarrassing. I have stopped wearing boxers or thin basket ball shorts because they are really embarrassing when you get an erection. Even tighter underwear can't conceal it completely. They don't go away and they come any time, they tent really prominently out of your pants which is so terrible esp when you wear swimming trunks or wear thin athletic shorts! And I love swimming and sports. If you don't touch, these huge and massive erections can be a HUGE problem esp for younger men.
3. If you don't touch, wet dreams are even more intense and evil. They often leave me sweating and soaking... and they are so embarrassing if you have a room mate. They are worse in sinful magnitude.
I am not trying to be difficult, but I am lost. Can anyone honestly say they have mastered killing masturbation? Honestly? What is your secret? And is it long term? How do you deal with erections?
Why?
1. Without masturbation, you are filled with more lustful thoughts all day. You spend more time lusting. But if you touch, you can get through the day with purer thoughts and you can go through the day better.
2. Raging hormones. For those of us younger and not married, raging hormones is a big issue. I often get prolonged erections and its so embarrassing. I have stopped wearing boxers or thin basket ball shorts because they are really embarrassing when you get an erection. Even tighter underwear can't conceal it completely. They don't go away and they come any time, they tent really prominently out of your pants which is so terrible esp when you wear swimming trunks or wear thin athletic shorts! And I love swimming and sports. If you don't touch, these huge and massive erections can be a HUGE problem esp for younger men.
3. If you don't touch, wet dreams are even more intense and evil. They often leave me sweating and soaking... and they are so embarrassing if you have a room mate. They are worse in sinful magnitude.
I am not trying to be difficult, but I am lost. Can anyone honestly say they have mastered killing masturbation? Honestly? What is your secret? And is it long term? How do you deal with erections?
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