I mean you don't understand women's issues related to the pregnancy which can result in them seeking a first trimester abortion. It is not all about the status of a fetus as a human being.
I don't particularly think it's fair to declare that men have no capacity to understand this issue because we don't carry a child. For example, I'm the husband of a wife that has had 4 pregnancies. We now have 3 children. I am a very involved and available husband, so it really did feel like we went through the pregnancy. Yes, I get that I didn't carry the children and experience the bodily and hormonal changes. But I was there, through it all. We have also fostered more children than I can count, with a very large portion of them being newborns. We have been involved with the mother's, helping them where we can.
I say that to say that when I compare myself to say a single woman who has never had a child, I think I actually do have a better appreciation and understanding of the issue.
And I simply feel that no woman should be forced to carry the fetus of her attacker against her will. Remember, my side isn't saying that the pregnant woman should be forced to have an abortion. We are simply saying that the choice must remain with her.
I get this, and part of me is inclined to agree with you. The law is not designed to dictate morality. For example, I believe that it is wrong and immoral to become intoxicated. Yet, I don't believe it should be illegal to become intoxicated. I do agree with the laws prohibiting intoxicated people from driving, because that protects both the intoxicated individual and anyone else they may encounter on the road. It's about protecting people, not legislating morality.
My hangup though is that I truly believe an unborn human being is just as much a human being as I am. I see no difference in value between an unborn human being and a 2 hour old infant. So for me, abortion raises the stakes. We're talking about killing a human being who is just as much made in the image of God as you and I.
If that's true,
if I'm right that unborn babies are no different in value than born babies, shouldn't the law protect them? Doesn't life trump liberty?
I think homosexual behavior is wrong. But honestly, if the secular government wants to allow homosexual marriage, I don't really care. In fact, I don't think the government should be involved in marriage at all, as I think marriage is a religious thing. I think the term "civil union" should apply to any two people that want to have tax advantages and other governmental benefits from living together.
But abortion... abortion is literally killing another human being. An innocent human being who has done no wrong. I can't think of any other instance where we allow that. I don't think killing an innocent human being is something we should be allowed to do.
You welcome women to just give up children? Do you believe that the traversal through many foster homes (some good some not good), is a better alternative to a free trip directly to heaven(if you believe this happens)?
suicide rates are at all time highs for children in homes with the parents who bore them.... Yet you feel you are helping children out by forcing them into foster homes and home of parents who only had them because they were forced to?
Well what's the alternative, to kill them? I mean what are you really saying here... It sounds like you're saying that since a child will have to go through the foster system, which isn't as loving as a family that an acceptable alternative is to kill them? What about children already in foster care? Should I, as a foster parent be able to look at their parents and decide that since I don't think they're going to have a good life that it should be OK for me to kill them?
neither is a fetus a living human being the moment of conception.
Again, you're very good at making statements without any sort of supporting evidence. You honestly believe that a fetus is NOT a "living human being" If they aren't living, are they dead? What are they? Are they not growing and developing? Can you provide even ONE credible reference to support your outdated and antiquated belief that a fetus is not a living human being?