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I have a friend who is in the process of getting a divorce from his wife who he has been married for 30 years or so. The marriage has been bad for at least the last 20 years. His wife I'm sure is at least seriously mentally ill and maybe even demonized (Kevin my friend does not believe this). He is getting push back from his congregation about the divorce.
He actually has serious reasons which I and many congregations would consider valid which include such things as 1) being on the receiving end of physical abuse, e.g. his wife actually ambushed him one time and gave him a concussion, 2)His wife has gossiped about him trying to imply that he is a child molester etc. even though there is not anything to substantiate that, (basically it's a divide and conquer strategy to alienate him from other people so she can continue to manipulate and be a vampire). His Messianic congregation however cites the verse by Jesus that mentions only adultery as a valid reason, so I thought I would do a thread on it. Besides that, he is also writing a book of Divorce from the stand point of Messianic Judaism. I will try to cover some of that, even though I can only grasp some of his basic message, arguments etc.
PS- While Kevin does not have any "caught red handed" proof of adultery he does have some good circumstantial evidence where if I was a betting man, I would definitely place a bet in favor of it. This includes an actual confession on his wife's part of "making out with another guy" during the marriage.
He actually has serious reasons which I and many congregations would consider valid which include such things as 1) being on the receiving end of physical abuse, e.g. his wife actually ambushed him one time and gave him a concussion, 2)His wife has gossiped about him trying to imply that he is a child molester etc. even though there is not anything to substantiate that, (basically it's a divide and conquer strategy to alienate him from other people so she can continue to manipulate and be a vampire). His Messianic congregation however cites the verse by Jesus that mentions only adultery as a valid reason, so I thought I would do a thread on it. Besides that, he is also writing a book of Divorce from the stand point of Messianic Judaism. I will try to cover some of that, even though I can only grasp some of his basic message, arguments etc.
PS- While Kevin does not have any "caught red handed" proof of adultery he does have some good circumstantial evidence where if I was a betting man, I would definitely place a bet in favor of it. This includes an actual confession on his wife's part of "making out with another guy" during the marriage.
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