I just checked in 2 Catholic Bibles, the New American Bible and the RSV-Catholic Edition and both of those have the verse. They explain it as a prohibition on seeking and using honorific titles to exalt oneself in the eyes of other people.
Correct - the Catholic Church does not omit this verse; rather understands it in its context.
Matthew 23:9 has our Lord and Savior telling us to call no man on earth “father”. He doesn’t qualify “spiritual” father - He just says “father”.
So can we annunciate the word “father”?
In Ephesians 6:2-4 St. Paul writes
“Honor your
father and mother” (this is the first commandment with a promise), “that it may be well with you and that you may live long on the earth.”
Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.” So inspired by the Holy Spirit St. Paul calls someone on earth “father”. Is this a contradiction?
Even though Our Lord doesn’t say religious leaders he really couldn’t have meant that either because in telling the story of Lazarus in Luke 16:24 He says:
And he (the rich man) called out, “
FatherAbraham, have mercy upon me, and send Lazarus to dip the end of his finger in water and cool my tongue; for I am in anguish in this flame.”
Abraham is clearly a “religious leader.” And Jesus is not alone in referring to him as “father.” St. James refers to Abraham as “father” in James 2:21, while St. Paul refers to Abraham as “father” 7x in Romans 4:1-18. If you believe in the inspiration of Sacred Scripture, St. James and St. Paul cannot contradict Jesus in Matthew 23:9.
So could He have meant no spiritual leaders on earth (even though Jesus doesn’t say that He just says “no man on earth”)?
Well, in 1 John 2:13-14 St. John refers to the leaders of the church in Ephesus as “fathers”.
In Acts 7:1-2 St. Stephen, again under the inspiration of the Holy Spirit, calls the leaders in Jerusalem as “fathers” while also calling Abraham “father”.
“And the high priest said, “Is this so?” And Stephen said: “Brethren and
fathers, hear me. The God of glory appeared to our
father Abraham…”
And in 1 Corinthians 4:14-15 St. Paul (again under the inspiration of the Holy Spirit) refers to himself as “father” because of his spiritual leadership.
So then what is the Catholic teaching on this? We look at the context of Matthew 23:9.
Matthew 23:8 says to call no man rabbi (“teacher”) because we have “one teacher” and yet many are referred to as teacher in Sacred Scripture (e.g. James 3:1 Ephesians 4:11...). Matthew 23:10 tells us to call no one master (leader) yet Sacred Scripture records people being called leader (e.g. Hebrews 13:27).
We reconcile this by grounding on the fact that God, the Father, is our one true Father. All other fatherhood, be it a father “on earth,” spiritual leaders in the Church, or our spiritual forefathers in heaven, participates in the Father’s unique Fatherhood and represents it to us. They neither take away nor add to this one unique Fatherhood; they establish it on the earth.(some translations of Ephesians 3:14-15 get at this).
The context of Matthew 23 emphasizes the sin of pride among the scribes and Pharisees. Recall that they loved to be called “teacher”, “father”, or “Rabbi,” but their pride pointed men to themselves rather than to God the Father from whom they received true fatherhood and in whom their fatherhood subsisted. Outside of God the Father, there are no fathers at all in the true sense of the term. But in God, we have all sorts of true “fathers” who can legitimately participate in that fatherhood established by God. Ultimately, Jesus is condemning the
usurpation of the fatherhood of God in Matthew’s Gospel, not the proper participation in that fatherhood.
So a priest (spiritual father) or a “dad” (biological or adoptive or foster father) who rightly carries out their vocation and participates in fatherhood as established by God can rightly be referred to as “father”. But anyone who inserts pride and fails to serve through participation in Gods fatherhood is not worthy of the name.
Hope that helps - God bless you all (this would have been more fun if we were closer to “Father’s Day” ).