I am tired of being both the breadwinner and head of the family as well as the emotional support and caregiver of my family. My faith hasn't changed but I feel a lot more weighed down in my spirit. It feels like life is a constant battle...at work, there is no one who supports us as nurses and our job just keeps getting harder and harder. As we start to build the support we need to unionize, the extent of the hopelessness of our situation is starting to weigh deeply...we are all abused and working in unsafe conditions. We just work harder because we do care about our patients and their health...but I come home exhausted and then have to face caring for my family. My hip needs to be replaced and I am working on getting that scheduled knowing that God is going to have to provide a miracle to make sure that bills get paid while I am off on medical leave. So much needs to get done in my house before I have the surgery, but my energy is limited as well as my ability to lift and move. My kids both graduate in a month, but that means the house has to be clean enough for relatives and money spent to celebrate and host family. I also need to get dental work done before the surgery which requires time and more money (necessary before orthopedic surgery because potentially deadly to treat within 3 months after bone has been opened surgically). I have no friends because I have no time or energy to foster friendships. Life is just awfully heavy and worse by having to bear it alone.
God is there. I know it. He provides as I need. However, I am having a hard time trying to keep my mind and spirit it where it should be. <sigh>
God is there. I know it. He provides as I need. However, I am having a hard time trying to keep my mind and spirit it where it should be. <sigh>
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