You seem to think I am teaching OSAS.
Couldn’t be further from the truth.
I’m saying born again Christians must remain in Christ, or be cast into the fire and burned.
Here is how we are instructed to abide or remain in Him.
Now he who keeps His commandments abides in Him, and He in him. And by this we know that He abides in us, by the Spirit whom He has given us. 1 John 3:24
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The commandments of Jesus are not grievous. His yolk is easy and HIS burden is light. To transgress those few commandments would also be to transgress the law. That does not mean we keep the law but that by keeping His commandments the law is of no effect on us any more, we are free of the law. His commandments are to believe in Him and love each other and God basically. The law of love. Now if someone is not loving the brethren we can tell they really are not of God. (at least not saved yet). 1 John was about this love.
Verse 6
Whosoever abideth in him sinneth not: whosoever sinneth hath not seen him, neither knoweth him.
From what John had already stated in 1 John 1, we know that he had no intention here of contradicting himself with any teaching to the effect any one having committed sin was in no sense a Christian. Many of the scholars assure us, based upon the Greek verbs used here, that "sinneth" in this context means "leads a life of sin."
1 John - Chapter 3 - Coffman's Commentary of the New Testament on StudyLight.org
So what we are really talking about here is not having God's love in us. (when we get saved we have Him in us and He IS love) Without it, we live in sin and are not of Him.
Here is a quote from focus on the family trying to address the issue
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This is an important point. Why? Because if
every sin is a willful sin, it doesn't make any sense to say that "willful sin" causes us to lose our salvation. The apostle John says something quite different: "If we walk in the light as He is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus Christ His Son cleanses us from all sin. If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:7-9). Again, it's a day-by-day, moment-by-moment process.
What about Hebrews 10:26-31? This is probably the passage your friend had in mind when he said that God will "reject" those who go on sinning willfully. There are many believers who share his point of view. But we'd suggest that it's possible to look at this portion of Scripture from a different angle. As we see it,
there's good reason to suppose that the "willful sin" of verse 26 is the same as the "unpardonable sin" that Jesus mentions in Matthew 12:31. To be specific, it's the sin of rejecting Christ altogether (otherwise known as "the blasphemy of the Holy Spirit").
We could also call this the sin of persistent self-hardening. It's the process by which an individual sears his conscience and stiffens his neck against God. If it goes on long enough, the person eventually reaches the point where genuine repentance is an impossibility. The fact that you're wrestling with doubts and fears about your standing with God leads us to suppose that you
cannot be guilty of this sin. If you were, you wouldn't be concerned about it.
If our assumptions are correct, it's possible to argue that Hebrews 10:26-31
doesn't refer to struggling Christians like yourself at all. This passage may be aimed at hardened, bitter people who only seem to be Christians.
Look at it this way. If an individual insists on living an unchristian life even after "receiving the knowledge of the truth," we might be led to suspect that he never
really accepted Christ in the first place. If he willfully persists in committing the same sin over and over again
without remorse and
without showing any evidence of a genuine desire to change, we would have every reason to doubt the sincerity of his faith. Such a person is like the demons mentioned in James 2:19: they "believe" the truth but refuse to grant it their personal allegiance. In a case like this, it is absolutely true to say that "there no longer remains a sacrifice for sins," since Jesus Himself
is that sacrifice. "But we are confident of better things concerning you" (Hebrews 6:9)."
Willful Sin After Salvation and Eternal Security