I was explaining to someone that God not only brings hope but He also brings distruction ie sodom. It is seen as God being evil to him. We dont always have to place God as the lovey dovey one because He is also responsible for destruction.
We shouldn't confuse God's light as Him being lovey-dovey. He is a God of love, but He is also a God of justice. The image of a just and majestic God is not exclusive of a loving and merciful God. In fact, we cannot properly have a merciful God if we do not have a just God.
When considering God's justice, we need to look closely at the context, both Scripturally and historically, of places where God exacts justice. In the case of Sodom and Gomorrah, God agreed with Abraham to spare the city of ten righteous people could be found inside it. Only ten. He only destroyed the cities because ten people could not be found. Furthermore, Genesis gives us a glimpse into how corrupt the city of Sodom was (In Genesis 19:5, a gang of men from Sodom threaten to rape the two angels staying with Lot), as well as how living in the city had corrupted Lot's thinking (In Genesis 19:6-8, after refusing to hand over the guests to be raped Lot considers handing over his two young daughters to these violent men, and the only reason Lot did not was the angels striking the men blind in v. 11).
Sodom and Gomorrah were not totally unique in their sins. The civilizations neighboring the Israelites practiced ritual prostitution, child sacrifice, and worse. God was not destroying these civilizations (or, in some cases, asking the Israelites to destroy them) on a whim. He was destroying them to protect the Israelites, as well as to put an end to those practices in that region. It is also worth noting that Sodom and Gomorrah were not unique in that God often gave these civilizations a chance. In the Book of Jonah, He offers a second chance to the people of Nineveh. Elsewhere, in the Book of Joshua, God rewards the faithfulness of Rahab of Jericho by including her and her children in the bloodline of King David, and through King David, the bloodline of the Messiah.
Were God not a just God, He could not be a merciful God. Mercy implies that there is some punishment that would otherwise await us were mercy not given. Without justice, mercy is not mercy—It is lawlessness. God's punishment for all of us was exacted on His Son. The mercy offered to us is only possible because of God's justice being satisfied.