I Disobeyed God and I Feel Awful...

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" He said I must stop committing that sin and never look at inappropriate contentography again or there will be disasterous consequences. He said there will terrible suffering and consequences involved if I do it again."

That was not of God.. well God would have told you where this was written. See God does not use fear.. and the FEAR of God is not mans understanding of the word. Like respect and so much more. Your Father never wants His children scared fearful of Him.. And He never ever uses guilt

See.. if this was of God.. He would have told you with ever temptaton He makes a way out. He would have told there there is NO condemnation to them that are in Chrsit Jesus.. NONE! He does not JUDGE YOU nor condemn you. That was already done on the CROSS! You think your doing some SIN that this GOD didnt know you would be doing AFTER you got saved?

What believer is spotless. Does not sin? You think every believer ONLY sins ONLY when tempted? We live in a fleshly body that has NOT been changed yet. So..I am so sorry but.. your going to have some kind of battle now and then and then fail fall.. you just get up dust off and keep going like we all do.

So repent do a 180...not 360 and keep going lol. If you fall.. and cant get up..stuck on some sin.. remember this part.. RUN TO HIM AND DONT LET GO! Your not alone. He will make a way out.. see He said.. OT if you just CALL on the name of the lord He will deliver you. He cant lie!

He is FOR YOU ..yep you missed it AGAIN and again.. but He is not man. He never ever ever ever stops loving you never. He ALWAYS with you He is NOT agaisnt you. Always for you. His JOY is your strength. Put on HIS armor.. you are strong in the lord in the POWER OF HIS MIGHT!

So.. know the enemy has lied to you.. your NOT stuck in this sin.. you be delivered..speak HIS WORD! Call on His name! You think OLD means old? A Gods words can not age.. HE will deliever you. He promised.. rejoice.. He forgave you.. you confess.. He is FAITHFUL and just to forgive you and CLEANS YOU FROM ALL UNRIGHTEOUSNESS!

You are RIGHTEOUS because you believe in JESUS..not because you never sin..or do sin. Does not work that way. His righteousness.. is why we WANT to do good things.. so forth so on.. so be at peace.. and dont let the enemy lie to you.. resist him and he has to flee.. and YES it was not GOD talking.. God will always back up what He says by His word..

And test the spirits.. we are WASHED by the BLOOD OF JESUS! No demon will ever say this
You may be wrong about the first part. God chastises or corrects those He Loves and it isn't pleasant most of the time. We reap what we sow and that includes the harvest of habitual sin that we don't turn away from deliberately. This is why the Bible speaks lots about sexual sin because it is intentional in the part of the sinner usually with pre-meditation. It starts with lust and then actions follow.
 
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God allowed it to happen because He has given you the ability to choose freely.
There are some things he delivered me from in the past that I can't go back to even if I wanted to, it surpasses my free will because that's how much he set me free from things in the past through his love and grace. I thought this would be like that, but I guess I was wrong because my temptations and flesh got in the way and I went back to it. ):
 
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You may be wrong about the first part. God chastises or corrects those He Loves and it isn't pleasant most of the time. We reap what we sow and that includes the harvest of habitual sin that we don't turn away from deliberately. This is why the Bible speaks lots about sexual sin because it is intentional in the part of the sinner usually with pre-meditation. It starts with lust and then actions follow.
I believe that. He disciplines us and does for our benefit. Like any parent would. He doesn't give up on us or send us to hell or take away our salvation, but he does give us consequences and disciplines us. But I think the post was saying he wouldn't necessarily warn us with fear? It would be more with love and encouragement? I'm not sure maybe God did want me to have healthy fear. Or maybe it really wasn't him. Regardless, it's wrong to disobey him anyway, I will repent from this sin. I hope I don't go back to it again though. /: This is very difficult please pray for me.
 
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I believe that. He disciplines us and does for our benefit. Like any parent would. He doesn't give up on us or send us to hell or take away our salvation, but he does give us consequences and disciplines us. But I think the post was saying he wouldn't necessarily warn us with fear? It would be more with love and encouragement? I'm not sure maybe God did want me to have healthy fear. Or maybe it really wasn't him. Regardless, it's wrong to disobey him anyway, I will repent from this sin. I hope I don't go back to it again though. /: This is very difficult please pray for me.
I will definitely pray for you my dear friend. Am grieved for you and believe the Lord will lead me to tarry in prayer.
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" He said I must stop committing that sin and never look at inappropriate contentography again or there will be disasterous consequences. He said there will terrible suffering and consequences involved if I do it again."

That was not of God.. well God would have told you where this was written. See God does not use fear.. and the FEAR of God is not mans understanding of the word. Like respect and so much more. Your Father never wants His children scared fearful of Him.. And He never ever uses guilt

See.. if this was of God.. He would have told you with ever temptaton He makes a way out. He would have told there there is NO condemnation to them that are in Chrsit Jesus.. NONE! He does not JUDGE YOU nor condemn you. That was already done on the CROSS! You think your doing some SIN that this GOD didnt know you would be doing AFTER you got saved?

What believer is spotless. Does not sin? You think every believer ONLY sins ONLY when tempted? We live in a fleshly body that has NOT been changed yet. So..I am so sorry but.. your going to have some kind of battle now and then and then fail fall.. you just get up dust off and keep going like we all do.

So repent do a 180...not 360 and keep going lol. If you fall.. and cant get up..stuck on some sin.. remember this part.. RUN TO HIM AND DONT LET GO! Your not alone. He will make a way out.. see He said.. OT if you just CALL on the name of the lord He will deliver you. He cant lie!

He is FOR YOU ..yep you missed it AGAIN and again.. but He is not man. He never ever ever ever stops loving you never. He ALWAYS with you He is NOT agaisnt you. Always for you. His JOY is your strength. Put on HIS armor.. you are strong in the lord in the POWER OF HIS MIGHT!

So.. know the enemy has lied to you.. your NOT stuck in this sin.. you be delivered..speak HIS WORD! Call on His name! You think OLD means old? A Gods words can not age.. HE will deliever you. He promised.. rejoice.. He forgave you.. you confess.. He is FAITHFUL and just to forgive you and CLEANS YOU FROM ALL UNRIGHTEOUSNESS!

You are RIGHTEOUS because you believe in JESUS..not because you never sin..or do sin. Does not work that way. His righteousness.. is why we WANT to do good things.. so forth so on.. so be at peace.. and dont let the enemy lie to you.. resist him and he has to flee.. and YES it was not GOD talking.. God will always back up what He says by His word..

And test the spirits.. we are WASHED by the BLOOD OF JESUS! No demon will ever say this

God doesn't use fear or guilt? I have felt the Holy Terror of God and believe me, you don't ever, ever want to experience that....unless God allows you to live, as He did with me. And as for guilt, Paul, who represents Christ, placed some unbelievable shame and guilt on the Corinthian church and the city of Galatia in the letter of Galatians.

I worship the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacab. That's a God that I'd be taking very seriously. I know what it is to shake and tremble because of His Raw, Almighty Power....and I shook and trembled just because of the Power that is through His Peace and Love. For after the Holy Terror, the worst kind of Panic attack outside of human comprehension, God rescued me as I called out His Holy name.

I'm changed, and I am so thankful for His Holy Terror that He allowed me to face (seconds from internal explosion of heart or veins, etc), for I now obey. I used to think that I was safe and secure in the arms of Jesus, even though I was wasted in strip clubs, blowing money like a crazy man, with a wife and stepkids at home. No more. I'm done. I'm not God. I'm nothing.

Get ready....be prepared. Those who have been warned but to not prepare will not be welcomed into the Kingdom, for they truly did not believe.
 
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[Jhn 3:19-21 NLT] “And the judgment is based on this fact: God's light came into the world, but people loved the darkness more than the light, for their actions were evil. All who do evil hate the light and refuse to go near it for fear their sins will be exposed. But those who do what is right come to the light so others can see that they are doing what God wants."

I have considered myself a “Christian” my entire life of over 50 years, but I can clearly prove that my actions showed that I was more interested in serving my body as if it were created to be an instrument of pleasure rather than for its intended purpose, a Holy Temple for God to literally enter. But I was buried in illicit sex, inappropriate contentography, strip clubs, alcohol abuse, anger, rage, malice, revenge, hatred, murder, suicide.…and on and on. I abused just about everything, for that’s all that I knew. I would guess that I have always pondered my sense of immaturity at least once per week….I have always known that I was in terrible, terrible condition. But again, I never seriously questioned my salvation thinking that it could be in jeopardy. How is this possible? We lie about everything….

[1Jo 2:4 NLT] “If someone claims, "I know God," but doesn't obey God's commandments, that person is a liar and is not living in the truth.”

We know that God cannot intermingle with liars, thus liars are unable to inherit the kingdom. And what about those who claim that they have no sin, that everything is great in their lives?

[1Jo 1:8, 10 NLT] “If we claim we have no sin, we are only fooling ourselves and not living in the truth. ... If we claim we have not sinned, we are calling God a liar and showing that his word has no place in our hearts.”

What in the world? Why would John ever interweave the two ideas of a person “having no sin” with asserting the notion that God is “a liar”? This isn’t easy to explain….Within the context of true Christianity, those who claim they are without sin are essentially saying that they possess the indwelling Holy Spirit, for anyone with the indwelling Spirit cannot continue to go on sinning.

[1Jo 3:9 NIV] “No one who is born of God will continue to sin, because God's seed remains in them; they cannot go on sinning, because they have been born of God.”

For the Holy Spirit proves Himself in our lives of word, action and thought. If we possess the Holy Spirit, who is said to be guiding us, how could this same Spirit use our same lives, words, actions and thoughts to create and generate the lie that we have no sin? Anyone who lies about possessing the Spirit does not and cannot possess the Spirit, for it is impossible to lie about the Holy Spirit if the Holy Spirit is the driving Force and Power (Grace) for our thoughts and actions?

[Jhn 9:41 NLT] "If you were blind, you wouldn't be guilty," Jesus replied. "But you remain guilty because you claim you can see.”

If we struggle with telling the truth, what are the chances of any form of success, particularly if we’re lying directly about the involvement of the Holy Spirit in our lives? Imagine lying to a therapist; a therapist can only give us their help based upon the information we give them. Or, do we expect them to be mind-readers?! Aren’t we setting a therapist up for disaster and failure by giving them a fictitious Cinderella story? How can a successful character change come through lying and hiding the very flaws you need to address? Explain how it is that we can we tell our friends and family that we want to kill ourselves, yet turn around and tell our therapist the next week that “Everything’s great!”? If we are battling with lying to one another, we belong to the Devil.

[1Jo 3:10 NLT] “So now we can tell who are children of God and who are children of the devil. Anyone who does not live righteously and does not love other believers does not belong to God.”

[1Jo 1:6 NLT] “So we are lying if we say we have fellowship with God but go on living in spiritual darkness; we are not practicing the truth.”

For the sake of all eternity, don’t be misled….God will hold you accountable regardless of what you might think of yourself and your swindling sins.

[Eph 5:6 NLT] “Don't be fooled by those who try to excuse these sins, for the anger of God will fall on all who disobey him.”

For our Powerful, Almighty God is not entertaining us with Planet Earth and all of its glories and riches just so that we might flourish in our selfish and self-centered ways. And there are millions of “Said Christians” who truly believed that their desires for Christ alone will grant them eternal life. This notion just is not true.

[Mat 7:21-23 NLT] "Not everyone who calls out to me, 'Lord! Lord!' will enter the Kingdom of Heaven. Only those who actually do the will of my Father in heaven will enter. On judgment day many will say to me, 'Lord! Lord! We prophesied in your name and cast out demons in your name and performed many miracles in your name.' But I will reply, 'I never knew you. Get away from me, you who break God's laws.”

Why? How? What spirit would ever possess Jesus, forcing Him to reject those who were literally prophesying and casting out demons in His own name? First, let us ignore the false teaching that this text set proves that obedience does not grant our way into heaven. This text set is not about obedience, but about what is believed in these people’s minds. One way to consider these individuals would be likened to “money changers” in the Temples. They were using the Temple of God as a source of income instead of way to worship the Almighty. Frankly, they weren’t obeying the God of Abraham, Isaac or Jacob, and worse, they’re not even true “believers”, thus they were only using the “concept” of Jesus so as to generate their worldly gain or provision.

In light of Jesus’s omniscient ability to know others hearts, their motives, Jesus knew exactly why these “Law breakers” were supposedly prophesying the Word of God, and the reasons were disingenuous. As said earlier, these people were not true believers, for Jesus made it clear that they were not doing the will of His Father in heaven. Their hearts were not after God, but after some sort of worldly gain or provision, but the work that they were doing was not being empowered by God’s indwelling Spirit. They truly did not believe in Jesus wholly as Abraham believed and trusted God. Without the indwelling Holy Spirit, a person sense of “faith” in Christ is only superficial. Therefore, our belief system is in error by default, as it is incomplete, for an incomplete faith is as useful as an incomplete set of directions.

The downfall of the Corinthian church was not an actual matter of obedience and behavior, but of what they believed. It was what they believed, or what they were not believing and understanding that was placing them into so much serious spiritual trouble with the Apostle Paul, a true representative of Christ. After extensive in-person training by Paul and other key teachers of the Christian faith, not to mention the training through his three personal letters, this group of “Christians” in Corinth seemed unable to retain the Gospel of Christ.

[1Co 3:1 NLT] “Dear brothers and sisters, when I was with you I couldn't talk to you as I would to spiritual people. I had to talk as though you belonged to this world or as though you were infants in the Christian life.

[1Co 14:20 NLT] “Dear brothers and sisters, don't be childish in your understanding of these things. Be innocent as babies when it comes to evil, but be mature in understanding matters of this kind.”

Note that Paul is not asking or begging them to do anything other than read his words. Paul is speaking as the way things truly are. He is clearly saying that he wants them to be mature in the Christian life, but also to be innocent as babies to evil. Paul wants us to stretch our understandings of the Christian Faith so that we might continue to grow and become more like Christ. Paul is calling for the testing of ourselves, and through this testing we will find damaged ideologies within us. We must refine our thinking so as to bring about change, so as to develop true Godly understanding. But these Corinthians, these people tested Paul, pushing him to the edge of his patience, seemingly shocked that this group of people were becoming more and more like the Israelites. And what we they like? They didn’t possess the Holy Spirit, thus they were very much on their own, trapped by their own ignorance of why we are here, in this body and on this planet.

It’s apparent that Paul at least felt in his heart that they didn’t believe he’d be coming back to them, therefore, there were a “freed” church. It seems that they felt a sense of freedom from responsibility; a freedom from obedience that would allow them to become most proficient in their sexual conquests, for both young and old. These people had become so worldly, so secular, so incredibly numb to the Almighty Powers of God, that they didn’t understand that talking about sexual conquests between mother and step-son, members of the same church, was and is a colossal abomination. These people were falling deeper into sin, and that cannot happen to anyone who has truly surrendered, given his life to Christ, believing in Him as Abraham believed in God….Jesus will then send His Holy Spirit to you and you will be eternally marked as His property for eternity. Therefore, how could anyone, who truly possess the Spirit of God, could ever behave in such a way that would cause Paul to react to them in such a wordly, anti-Christian way and manner of speech? It seems that this letter was about to be his last should the Corinthian church not repent and turn, for the first time, truly, to God.

[1Co 4:18-19, 21 NLT] “Some of you have become arrogant, thinking I will not visit you again. But I will come--and soon--if the Lord lets me, and then I'll find out whether these arrogant people just give pretentious speeches or whether they really have God's power. ... Which do you choose? Should I come with a rod to punish you, or should I come with love and a gentle spirit?”

This church was in such poor condition, that Paul felt that he needed it be known that he questioned whether or not anyone in the church even held the indwelling Spirit, so as to judge Spiritual matters.

[1Co 6:5-10 NLT] “I am saying this to shame you. Isn't there anyone in all the church who is wise enough to decide these issues? But instead, one believer sues another--right in front of unbelievers! Even to have such lawsuits with one another is a defeat for you. Why not just accept the injustice and leave it at that? Why not let yourselves be cheated? Instead, you yourselves are the ones who do wrong and cheat even your fellow believers. Don't you realize that those who do wrong will not inherit the Kingdom of God? Don't fool yourselves. Those who indulge in sexual sin, or who worship idols, or commit adultery, or are male prostitutes, or practice homosexuality, or are thieves, or greedy people, or drunkards, or are abusive, or cheat people--none of these will inherit the Kingdom of God.”

Who and what have we become? Is not John describing our society on the whole when he wrote:

[1Jo 3:17 NLT] “If someone has enough money to live well and sees a brother or sister in need but shows no compassion--how can God's love be in that person?”

Is this not who many of us are even today?

[1Jo 4:8 NLT] “But anyone who does not love does not know God, for God is love.”

The point that John is making is that when a true Christian possesses the indwelling Spirit, by default, they [will] demonstrate true love for others. Compassion is a byproduct of the Holy Spirit. So if God is Love, and if God sends His Spirit to Indwell us, and if God and the Spirit are one, then the Spirit is also this same Love, for God is Love. Therefore, if we have the indwelling Spirit who is one with God, the Spirit is also this same Love and will use our willing bodies and souls to serve and worship Him through the righteous acts that His new indwelt body will complete for Him. We are to be ambassadors. We are to be examples of Christ. If we have the indwelling Spirit, the four become one; God, the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit with our own individual spirit last.
I think few will read all this here.
Have you blogged it?
Is there a link?

In the end the Op lacks one thing in testimony... Love For God...
Hate of sin.
We always end up serving what we love the most.
 
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I think few will read all this here.
Have you blogged it?
Is there a link?

In the end the Op lacks one thing in testimony... Love For God...
Hate of sin.
We always end up serving what we love the most.

Agreed. This place isn't very serious. Seems to be mostly people running around jabbing each other with knives and then says, "Oh yes, I love God!"

Nah, it's just a rough draft of a massive study I'm putting together on the Holy Spirit. It's changing my life....I had no idea. I am so fortunate.
 
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There are some things he delivered me from in the past that I can't go back to even if I wanted to, it surpasses my free will because that's how much he set me free from things in the past through his love and grace. I thought this would be like that, but I guess I was wrong because my temptations and flesh got in the way and I went back to it. ):

Sometimes there are struggles and sins in your life that needs getting more worked on by God, which may need more time before you get free'd out from it.

You should definitively look at the ones which you have gotten free'd out from already as encouragements and strenght for you to go on trusting in God, and knowing that He is helping you with this.
 
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Hey everyone, I have to share something I am struggling with and I am looking on what to do next. I struggle with lust and inappropriate content addiction. About two weeks ago, I heard a voice in my dream while I was sleeping and I believe it was an angel of the Lord. He said I must stop committing that sin and never look at inappropriate contentography again or there will be disasterous consequences. He said there will terrible suffering and consequences involved if I do it again. I felt it must have been from God because it fits scripture, God warns us not to sin or there will be consequences and he wants to shape us to be more righteous and walk in his ways. So that confirmed to me it was from him because it lined up with scripture. The next day, I had fear of the Lord over that but it was healthy fear and knowing God did that to discipline me and it encouraged me to do what was right.

So I obeyed him and I felt a miracle happened. Before whenever I had sexual thoughts I always felt like I lost control and I couldn't keep it captive and one thing led to another and I always lost the war to temptation. I always felt like my thoughts were too much and led me to sinning. But after that warning I felt complete deliverance. Whenever I had a sexual thought, I was suddenly able to take it captive and it didn't bother me anymore and I was able to just focus on God. It felt like God truly delivered me and I was so happy. The struggle wasn't there anymore. I felt this addiction I was facing for so long was finally healed by God.

But today, something happened. I suppose it started last night with some weird sexual dream I had. I ignored it and moved on. Then one thing led to another, I saw a couple ads online... A couple more things on another website. This started making me nervous. I tried my best to go back to focusing on God like I usually did before, but for some reason it didn't work this time and all the sexual tension started building up. I tried my best to not do it but one thing led to another and I found myself on a bad website again... ): I felt like I was past the point of no return so I sinned again. I have no idea what happened, how it happened, what got a hold of me, and how after all that, I stumbled yet again...

I feel absolutely awful now. It's even worse than before. Before I was disobeying God's word in scripture. But now I felt like I disobeyed him even more because he literally spoke to me and warned me about it. I feel so terrible too because I thought I was finally delivered from it and it truly felt that way... I can't believe I went back to it again.

Another reason I feel awful is out of fear of God's punishment now. He warned me if I did it again there would be terrible consequences... So now I have to face my punishment deservingly so but I am so scared of what will happen. What consequences and suffering will come on my way? This is also what makes me feel awful. I also feel hopeless. Like after believing I was delivered, how in the world did I commit the sin again? I feel like I will never get delivered and I just lost so much hope. Is this some lesson or something? Why did God allow this to happen? I don't understand at all. I am just looking for advice on how to move on from here. ):
I have written about my experience learning the terror of The Lord and your fear may well have been a warning. Christ makes captivity captive. When you pray for forgiveness, your intention is to never commit the sin again I assume.
 
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If God gave you that dream, he also understand that this addiction can be hard to break and that we need his help, because if its not in your power to do something God would not have asked that of you, you need help from him, but don't give up, we need to leave our sins behind and even if it passes a lot of time without results keep praying and asking God to get cured.
 
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God's love is unconditional. we may fail sometimes but he does not forsake us . God corrects you, not punish you. The punishment for sin is death. if you are saying I'll be punished then you are not considering the work Jesus has done to save you. think about it
 
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In the end the Op lacks one thing in testimony... Love For God...
Hate of sin.
We always end up serving what we love the most.
Are you without sin? It takes more of a man to admit he is a sinner and needs help than to claim he is perfect. If you have nothing helpful to say, don't reply to this thread. Look at yourself in the mirror because I'm sure you have a lot of unknown sins inside of you. I can already see one and it's a very bad sin God hates, and that is pride. You seem to not understand that sanctification is a process, and you jump and claim if you give into sin they don't love God but serve sin and love yourself only? Perhaps you didn't read the part where I said "I feel awful". I will pray for you. News flash: No one is sinless, not even you. Work on your pride and check yourself.
 
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God's love is unconditional. we may fail sometimes but he does not forsake us . God corrects you, not punish you. The punishment for sin is death. if you are saying I'll be punished then you are not considering the work Jesus has done to save you. think about it
But punishment didn't mean hell in that. Couldn't punishment mean an earthly consequence? Doesn't God discipline us? I absolutely do trust Jesus has saved me, and I am sealed until the day of redemption. I still feel bad when I disobey God because it hurts him.
 
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But punishment didn't mean hell in that. Couldn't punishment mean an earthly consequence? Doesn't God discipline us? I absolutely do trust Jesus has saved me, and I am sealed until the day of redemption. I still feel bad when I disobey God because it hurts him.

Maybe its not punishment, some say God does not punish christians, but its consequences the problem. But we need the help of God, so don't dismay because you failed keep trying until you succeed with prayer.
 
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-Fast and pray for repentance. Pray Psalm 51 and mean it with all your heart during your fast and worship.


-This is such a struggle within our community, but it's not the end. It is all part of your testimony, do not give up and let the enemy make you think you can't possibly return. God knows what is in men. He's going to use it all to make you into someone that will help others. Proverbs 24:16 For a righteous man will fall seven times, and rise : but the ungodly shall be without strength in troubles. Rise again my friend and ask God to heal you as you cannot do this on your own.

-Get Godly counselling from church. Get an accountability partner, a Christian friend you trust that you can call when you feel tempted.

-Recognize your triggers: if it's being alone, try not to be alone. If it's certain shows or music, stop watching listening etc...

-Covenant eyes is a good website. You can also suscribe to get daily emails on how to combat this.
The Apostle Paul's Secret to Fighting Sexual Sin

Stay strong my friend, you are not beyond the point of no return. The enemy wants to get you by thinking you need this.

Not sure if we can post youtube videos but this is good.
 
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Are you without sin? It takes more of a man to admit he is a sinner and needs help than to claim he is perfect. If you have nothing helpful to say, don't reply to this thread. Look at yourself in the mirror because I'm sure you have a lot of unknown sins inside of you. I can already see one and it's a very bad sin God hates, and that is pride. You seem to not understand that sanctification is a process, and you jump and claim if you give into sin they don't love God but serve sin and love yourself only? Perhaps you didn't read the part where I said "I feel awful". I will pray for you. News flash: No one is sinless, not even you. Work on your pride and check yourself.
Lets get some things straight. 1 dont use phrases i didnt use.
2 i was in the same state with sexual immorality and inappropriate content.
3.if i didnt stop i was going to hell.
(Without repentance there is no forgivness of sin.
4 repentance is not feeling awful.. But feeling awful plays a part in coming to sincere repentance.
Judas Iscariot felt very awful but it didnt save him.
5 there is a huge difference between having sin and doing works of sin.
I DO NOT DO works of sin in sexual immorality .
Jesus set me free from the power of Sin in my life. Free means free.(including freedom to choose what actionewe take). Then he showed me the reason i had continued to do that sin was simply because i loved that sin More then i loved God.

Thus i advise you..repent. Change your mind and so change your ways .
Jesus already paid the price for your freedom from sin and death.learn to walk in that freedom .
There is no power greater then God that can make me or you DO an action we know is a sinful action.

Eg Will you take a hammer and bash it down on your hand ?
No! because you love the well being of your hand more then the pain the hammer will bring.
Just so...when we love God we do NOT want to hit him with Sin against him.

He already loved you, accept that.
Now get up. Dust it off and love him more from this monent on .
 
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Feeling awful is good. It is when you stop feeling awful that you should start to worry.
y.yet we know a better way..
I no longer feel awful ........because i no longer Do the action of that Sin .
 
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Lets get some things straight. 1 dont use phrases i didnt use.
2 i was in the same state with sexual immorality and inappropriate content.
3.if i didnt stop i was going to hell.
(Without repentance there is no forgivness of sin.
4 repentance is not feeling awful.. But feeling awful plays a part in coming to sincere repentance.
Judas Iscariot felt very awful but it didnt save him.
5 there is a huge difference between having sin and doing works of sin.
I DO NOT DO works of sin in sexual immorality .
Jesus set me free from the power of Sin in my life. Free means free.(including freedom to choose what actionewe take). Then he showed me the reason i had continued to do that sin was simply because i loved that sin More then i loved God.

Thus i advise you..repent. Change your mind and so change your ways .
Jesus already paid the price for your freedom from sin and death.learn to walk in that freedom .
There is no power greater then God that can make me or you DO an action we know is a sinful action.

Eg Will you take a hammer and bash it down on your hand ?
No! because you love the well being of your hand more then the pain the hammer will bring.
Just so...when we love God we do NOT want to hit him with Sin against him.

He already loved you, accept that.
Now get up. Dust it off and love him more from this monent on .
You follow a false gospel... I cannot by in fellowship with you, but rather pray for you that God makes you born again. You may be saved but simply in a season of deception. Your teachings are false. You cannot lose salvation. I will pray for you, because you believe and teach false heretical doctrine that lead people to destruction and even hell. You don't rest or trust in Jesus alone, and you think your works and your amount of sins is what justifies you or saves you. I am sorry to say but you are very deceived and mistaken and in error my friend. I hope you repent.
 
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