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This was originally posted by me to a weight loss surgery support group. Here I'm editing it to take out the numbers, which I'd rather not share publicly.
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I'm pre-surgery and trying to lose down to the weight they told me to lose down to. Originally my husband was going to go through this with me, but then his job situation changed, and now he can't get the time off. So it's just me this time, and maybe him later. If he still qualifies. He barely qualified in the first place, and now he's losing weight and his diabetes is under much better control. We've both been measuring and logging our food intake, and he plans to continue doing that even if he doesn't end up having surgery. Neither of us has had a carbonated or caffeinated beverage in weeks. We go on nature hikes together, and I really like that. Best of all, since he's also working on his weight, he no longer food-pushes as he once did. I know I can "just say no," but he used to keep asking even after I said no. He doesn't do that anymore.
As for the surgery weight, I've never since my children were born been able go lower than MNO. My highest weight ever was XYZ, but at the time of referral I was at PQR. So that's what they want me to lose 5% of. Trouble was, by the time of the education class, I had regained up to TUV. I tried to convince them to let me lose 5% of *that,* but no dice. It has to be 5% of the referral weight. Which takes me down to LMN. Repeat, I have *never* since my children were born been able to go lower than MNO.
So now I'm sitting right at exactly MNO. My next consultation is toward the end of May, and this gives me that length of time to lose 3 more pounds. I'm working at a good pace, but will my body let me do it? I'll have to stay tuned and find out.
I'm glad to have his support and cooperation. The only trouble is... From the beginning, I have outweighed him. People remark on what a big bear of a man he is. If that's true, and I weigh more than he does, what does that say about me? He's taller than I am, and men have bigger bone and muscle structure than women do. I'd love to get to where I weigh less than he does. But every time I show a weight loss, so does he. Which means I continue to outweigh him. Sigh. Good for you, honey. I'm glad you're getting healthy. But can anybody else relate to this feeling here?
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I'm pre-surgery and trying to lose down to the weight they told me to lose down to. Originally my husband was going to go through this with me, but then his job situation changed, and now he can't get the time off. So it's just me this time, and maybe him later. If he still qualifies. He barely qualified in the first place, and now he's losing weight and his diabetes is under much better control. We've both been measuring and logging our food intake, and he plans to continue doing that even if he doesn't end up having surgery. Neither of us has had a carbonated or caffeinated beverage in weeks. We go on nature hikes together, and I really like that. Best of all, since he's also working on his weight, he no longer food-pushes as he once did. I know I can "just say no," but he used to keep asking even after I said no. He doesn't do that anymore.
As for the surgery weight, I've never since my children were born been able go lower than MNO. My highest weight ever was XYZ, but at the time of referral I was at PQR. So that's what they want me to lose 5% of. Trouble was, by the time of the education class, I had regained up to TUV. I tried to convince them to let me lose 5% of *that,* but no dice. It has to be 5% of the referral weight. Which takes me down to LMN. Repeat, I have *never* since my children were born been able to go lower than MNO.
So now I'm sitting right at exactly MNO. My next consultation is toward the end of May, and this gives me that length of time to lose 3 more pounds. I'm working at a good pace, but will my body let me do it? I'll have to stay tuned and find out.
I'm glad to have his support and cooperation. The only trouble is... From the beginning, I have outweighed him. People remark on what a big bear of a man he is. If that's true, and I weigh more than he does, what does that say about me? He's taller than I am, and men have bigger bone and muscle structure than women do. I'd love to get to where I weigh less than he does. But every time I show a weight loss, so does he. Which means I continue to outweigh him. Sigh. Good for you, honey. I'm glad you're getting healthy. But can anybody else relate to this feeling here?