I just got to say that people have called and labeled me "lazy" all my life, Just because I wasn't as physical, had/have a low metabolism, and played a lot of video games as a kid, was a nerd, hung out with other nerds, ect...
But, I'm not lazy because I don't work a normal job, or don't work a normal job because I am "lazy"... When I moved out of my parents house and away from my parents, after I graduated high school and was eighteen, got married (the first time) but, after I moved out of my parents house and graduated high school, I think I proved that I was not lazy or irresponsible, I have worked from the time I was 16, up to about 33, when something started happening with me mentally, that was or got or became very bad for about 3-4 years, and only started letting up "some" after that, and it is still with me, and it's not just simply "sensory overload" like some people might call it, well, maybe it is or could be, but on a scale and of a certain "kind and type" that definitely prevents me from working or having any kind of "normal life" like "normal people" do...
I am diagnosed with a very real mental disability that most people don't understand, cause most of them say that I seem like I'm pretty normal on the outside, or when they see me or something, ect... Oh, but if they only knew what was going on "within" or on the inside at these times and oftentimes... And what goes on within me that I'm not showing anybody, is triggered by stuff on the outside and around me, that I think is Spirits trying to communicate with me, through things (sometimes or at times everything or almost everything) And you want to talk about "sensory overload"...
It's bad, real bad, I cannot watch anything new anymore or that I have not been exposed to or know already on a TV screen or whatever, I have to leave, shut it off, or get away from it, I can't tune out a TV when I would go to someone else's house or something anymore, and/or/because it bothers me, and I just can't do it, can't handle it, I always feel like it's talking to me or trying to speak to me and about me, ect, and "following me" ect... Sometimes wonder if it's a tool and outlet of the devil, ect... This prevents me from going over to peoples houses and enjoying and TV ever, and since many people do not understand, and want to have their TV's on all the time or when I am over there, or watch shows or movies, I can't do it...
What happens with TV almost all the time, can happen with radio or stereo sometimes, and with people, animals, and even inanimate things and even the forces of nature at times, or just out and about or among people talking, a lot of noise or noises going on, ect, sometimes also...
It's sensory overload yes, but it's also because I think it is talking to or about me or trying to or with me sometimes, about me or people I know... By all the noise, pictures, whatever, stimuli, I just can't handle it sometimes or a lot of the time... I want to freak or flip out, but I usually don't but just try to get out of and away from the situation or it best I can...
I don't like groups or hanging out being around a group or more than one person alone, at a time... This has less to do with the usual, normal, atypical reasons people do not like to go out and be or associate or socialize with groups of people, It's because of what my mind does to me and how I think it is sometimes associated with Spirits, and Spirits are either trying to communicate or just mess with me on purpose cause they think it's fun, or funny or something, I still don't know, but I never show it on the outside, even in the midst of while it is going on and happening, but It is "sensory overload" and such intense fear, anxiety, and on the verge of panic, and sometimes very severe paranoia that... Well, let's just say "it is what it is" and leave it at that...
I don't not want to work, cause I used to work, anyhow, I do not, not want to work, it's that I can't do it now anymore...
I have to spend a great deal of time alone and by myself in my apartment, where "I get to dictate and control what sights, sounds, ect, "things" I am exposed to, or the noises (or sights and sounds) going on around me, ect, and control my environment, ect...
When I can't do that most of the time, It would probably put me back in the mental hospital again...
I "dream" of having a so-called normal life and normal existence again, like I did before all of this started when I was 33, (I'm 40 now) I can only dream about it now, because it is only a dream for me now, because I will probably never ever be normal, or be able to ever go back to a normal life and normal existence ever again...
I only halfway have some sanity or peace of mind now, because of being by myself and in a place where I get to control my environment, and what I am exposed to, ect...
Most of the "simple things" that most "normal people" get to do and enjoy, I do not get to because I can't now anymore... Now I only, or can only dream now about being able to be like one of them again, or have a normal life and normal existence again... I can only, and get to only dream about them...
Now, I'm making efforts to get out of my house and do some things, and go to, and try to get involved in and with a church, if I can, ect... These simple, little things that, for normal people are so easy and take for granted, I dream about having and being able to do or be... Because I feel like I have to put forth "enormous effort" and strong, strenuous, exertion of my will sometimes to be able to do them, or be them, or whatever...
But, I am going to try, because I to and beginning to feel like somethings got to be changed up, or I need to try some new and different things and "out there" and not stuck alone in my apartment all the time... But, for you guys it's so easy for you, while it's quite the opposite for me sometimes, or a lot of the time...I envy you guys...
God Bless!