Discouraged...been unemployed for over a year.

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I've been out of a job since last march due to company downsizing. I was one of the few to be laid off. I figured I'd find a job soon since I had 6 months of unemployment. Therefore, I started applying every day with no results. I did a few freelance projects on the side and mind you, this was before I returned to the lord. During that time, I did feel a tug deep within my heart and I knew it was God wanting me to return to him.

I kept resisting and trying to ignore it. Whenever I had interviews, it would result in no response or they chose someone else regardless of how impressed they were of my background. I got hired in October during my birthday week and thought I finally did it, only to be fired within a month later because they expected me to know everything within a week and that I asked too many questions.

I was back to the drawing board once again as I applied but no one responded since it was during the holidays. Once January came, I surrendered to the lord. However, I noticed the moment I did I started getting spiritually attacked...arguments at home, and many job rejections before they even gave me a chance to even see them in an interview...

In addition, out of over a 1000 applications, I got mostly no responses and 10 interviews. I had another interview this Friday but it was horrifically short as the guy didn't see too thrilled to see me. It was like he expected to meet someone else due to my French name. (I'm hispanic.)

He barely gave any questions at all and didn't even shake my hand so I knew I didn't get the job even though he wants to send me a design test even though he saw my portfolio.

I became upset and cried out to God about why he created me in the first place. All I ever had in life was disappointment and pain. I was born in a low income family that was also dysfunctional and wanted to make something of myself but instead I continued to run into roadblocks every step of the way....

I only ask that you pray for me and help me become more faithful, less doubtful, trust God more and to finally get a job as I am running out of emergency funds..

Thank you. Have a great night.
 

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How do I begin?

I've been out of a job since last march due to company downsizing. I was one of the few to be laid off. I figured I'd find a job soon since I had 6 months of unemployment. Therefore, I started applying every day with no results. I did a few freelance projects on the side and mind you, this was before I returned to the lord. During that time, I did feel a tug deep within my heart and I knew it was God wanting me to return to him.

I kept resisting and trying to ignore it. Whenever I had interviews, it would result in no response or they chose someone else regardless of how impressed they were of my background. I got hired in October during my birthday week and thought I finally did it, only to be fired within a month later because they expected me to know everything within a week and that I asked too many questions.

I was back to the drawing board once again as I applied but no one responded since it was during the holidays. Once January came, I surrendered to the lord. However, I noticed the moment I did I started getting spiritually attacked...arguments at home, and many job rejections before they even gave me a chance to even see them in an interview...

In addition, out of over a 1000 applications, I got mostly no responses and 10 interviews. I had another interview this Friday but it was horrifically short as the guy didn't see too thrilled to see me. It was like he expected to meet someone else due to my French name. (I'm hispanic.)

He barely gave any questions at all and didn't even shake my hand so I knew I didn't get the job even though he wants to send me a design test even though he saw my portfolio.

I became upset and cried out to God about why he created me in the first place. All I ever had in life was disappointment and pain. I was born in a low income family that was also dysfunctional and wanted to make something of myself but instead I continued to run into roadblocks every step of the way....

I only ask that you pray for me and help me become more faithful, less doubtful, trust God more and to finally get a job as I am running out of emergency funds..

Thank you. Have a great night.
Will pray, Cosmo! Have you tried at least a temporary retail job? It would at least help you pay some bills!
 
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So sorry to hear, my family has been without a steady income for the past six months. I'm the disabled daddy and my wife works. She was fired and the entire basis was false, even proven false. So ever since although technically a former employer is limited in what they can say by law, it seems her previous employer has and continues to spoil her opportunities for future employment because she has applied for many jobs since. I've sold a number of things on eBay to help pay the bills, but only so many things can easily and quickly sell, and the costs of doing business through eBay limit what is and is not worth all the time, effort, and hassle. So the eBay funds have dried up, the tax refund is dried up, we're in begging my parents to help with survival territory. Anyway, I write all this to let you know, you're not alone, others are struggling too, and remember our identity is in Christ, our value is in Christ, not in the cloths we wear, the cars we drive, or whether or not we have a job. May God have mercy on us poor sinners and may His grace be sufficient.
 
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Off the kindness of others mainly, including my family.
I see...my mom helps out with food and some of my bills but there's only so much she can do. I guess I'll just keep plugging away...hopefully I find a job soon....student loan companies are already threatening to sue...
 
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I see...my mom helps out with food and some of my bills but there's only so much she can do. I guess I'll just keep plugging away...hopefully I find a job soon....student loan companies are already threatening to sue...

I'm mentally ill so it's nearly impossible for me to get hired anywhere.
 
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I'm mentally ill so it's nearly impossible for me to get hired anywhere.
I am very sorry to hear... I feel your pain.

I have Major Depressive Disorder and Loads of Fatigue with some social anxiety. I've been working at home these months on and off so I guess I can try applying to online jobs. I am finishing another design test for an online job for a stationary company. Pray that I get the job!
 
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I tried applying for jobs like that but they never reply back. I'm assuming they think I'm overqualified because I have over 10 years in the design field.
Call them back. Be aggressive. A little. If you bug them, they'll be maybe more likely to remember you, and call back.
 
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I am very sorry to hear... I feel your pain.

I have Major Depressive Disorder and Loads of Fatigue with some social anxiety. I've been working at home these months on and off so I guess I can try applying to online jobs. I am finishing another design test for an online job for a stationary company. Pray that I get the job!
Have you tried flexjobs.com?
 
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My son is still out of work. I understand what you're saying. I don't have any job skills, have anxiety and came from a dysfunctional family. I don't really want to talk about my experiences (some good and some not so good). God has taken care of me and I'll pray that He does the same for you.
 
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I tried applying for jobs like that but they never reply back. I'm assuming they think I'm overqualified because I have over 10 years in the design field.
Have you considered moving to another city/state to get a job in the design field you are qualified for?

Or, another possibility - do not try to be employed by somebody, maybe you can start your own business.
 
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Have you considered moving to another city/state to get a job in the design field you are qualified for?

Or, another possibility - do not try to be employed by somebody, maybe you can start your own business.

I've been thinking about it since I do run a blog called cosmic funnies where I teach kids about space in a cute way and have a sticker shop for it. I also sold a few books of my series. My problem is marketing. I need to know how to do that to get more customers.
 
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I've been thinking about it since I do run a blog called cosmic funnies where I teach kids about space in a cute way and have a sticker shop for it. I also sold a few books of my series. My problem is marketing. I need to know how to do that to get more customers.
That sounds good. Maybe this is the way to go. I am sure there are some online resources about marketing, social networks and other ways of spreading the word about your eshop.

Maybe you can create some ads that are displayed on other people's websites or something like that. You must target at the segment of the market interested in your product - maybe elementary schools, parents, FB groups for parents of small kids etc.
 
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Hi Cosmo...

This sentence stood out.

"Once January came, I surrendered to the lord. However, I noticed the moment I did I started getting spiritually attacked...arguments at home, and many job rejections..."

Never let this put you off...

Bottom line is that our adversary is unlikely to bother too much those who are already rendered ineffective.

The fact that you surrendered to Jesus made you a target.

Always remember the battle is His and ask Him to teach you when and how to resist the enemies interference.

Blessings,

Carl Emerson.
 
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Hi Cosmo...

This sentence stood out.

"Once January came, I surrendered to the lord. However, I noticed the moment I did I started getting spiritually attacked...arguments at home, and many job rejections..."

Never let this put you off...

Bottom line is that our adversary is unlikely to bother too much those who are already rendered ineffective.

The fact that you surrendered to Jesus made you a target.

Always remember the battle is His and ask Him to teach you when and how to resist the enemies interference.

Blessings,

Carl Emerson.
Thank you Carl. I'll keep that in mind.
 
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