To begin with, why don't most women cover their head in church as required in
1 Corinthians 11:5-6? In the Greek Orthodox church that I went to, a very few did but the great majority didn't. Why not?
Why is divorce so common among Orthodox Christians when
Matthew 5:32 only allows it for sexual immorality?
St. Paul the Apostle required head coverings, but they are not something worth denying communion over.
I can't say why the divorce rate is what it is, but most priests in each jurisdiction will not marry a divorced person to someone else, at the very least not if that person was divorced for a reason other than adultery.
A sound religion would discourage television and modern electronic entertainment. It would discourage sending children to public school.
I think you would enjoy reading the homilies of St. John Chrysostom. He railed against blasphemies in the (non-electronic!) theatres of his time and admonished the Christians who attended them. And you do make a good point on that. We could use another Chrysostom. That said, your date of 2000 is quite arbitrary. The very act of sitting and watching television or internet videos, unless they're of homilies, a Saint's life, or something similar, distracts from praying without ceasing and thinking on holy things. It doesn't matter if it's Charlie Chaplin or Black Mirror. These days, there's so much out there, no one has time to go through them all and say "this is okay to watch, this is not okay to watch..." If a person spends more time praying, they'll spend less time watching harmful things anyway. And in any case, many in our culture define their lives by their entertainment. If we approach it the right way, we can leverage it to spread our faith to others.
As for discouraging sending children to public school, I really don't see why. Yes, sometimes children are exposed to harmful ideas in public schools, but the best way to handle it isn't to hide them from it, but to a) get out in front of it with the truth when possible and b) talk with your kids every day about what they did that day and address anything troubling.
I think maybe you should look at Orthodoxy as an ideal of which we are all falling short, but many are trying their best and trying to pull others up with them.
P. S. you mentioned pews. As far as I'm aware, pews have never been forbidden. It's a "little t" tradition.