I haven't been on very many dates in my lifetime, but none of them have ever worked out past the second one.
The first one is always the finding out the most you can about each other, maybe talking about interests that you're really really fond of (I call those biases) or just going with the flow.
I usually always lay my faith flat out, but on the most recent date I went on I didn't, and I paid dearly for it. I had a ton of things in common with this person, she even knew as much stuff about computers and coding as I did, then she told me that was Wiccan and my heart sank.
All those things in common destroyed by a difference in religion.
My dates usually always end poorly because of either a mixture of my issues in life being too much for them or my extreme biases get in the way of things, but I'm not going to lie or try to change who I am just to be with a person. I never blame the other person for a date not going well, I always see it as my fault because I am a man, I should know how to handle these things at my age regardless of experience (or at least that's what society tells me.)
I've thought about just avoiding dating altogether, all just because I can't seem to get one to work, which would honestly mean that I would certainly be alone the rest of my days, but if I can't get this nailed down, what's the point?
I'm not really looking for advice on this, in fact I'm sure this'll just be another thread that gets buried, but whatever, it's off my mind and that's all I care about.
The first one is always the finding out the most you can about each other, maybe talking about interests that you're really really fond of (I call those biases) or just going with the flow.
I usually always lay my faith flat out, but on the most recent date I went on I didn't, and I paid dearly for it. I had a ton of things in common with this person, she even knew as much stuff about computers and coding as I did, then she told me that was Wiccan and my heart sank.
All those things in common destroyed by a difference in religion.
My dates usually always end poorly because of either a mixture of my issues in life being too much for them or my extreme biases get in the way of things, but I'm not going to lie or try to change who I am just to be with a person. I never blame the other person for a date not going well, I always see it as my fault because I am a man, I should know how to handle these things at my age regardless of experience (or at least that's what society tells me.)
I've thought about just avoiding dating altogether, all just because I can't seem to get one to work, which would honestly mean that I would certainly be alone the rest of my days, but if I can't get this nailed down, what's the point?
I'm not really looking for advice on this, in fact I'm sure this'll just be another thread that gets buried, but whatever, it's off my mind and that's all I care about.