i met this person at college who I know I’m meant to be with. God has told me so, and he told me to wait. The problem is now she is in a relationship with another person, who hates god with a passion. I ask god what to do and he tells me wait. I ask for a prayer to make things clearer
Pray to get through this trial
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Then wait.
She'll probably be turned off by the guy in due time.
Hopefully without damage...
She'll probably be turned off by the guy in due time.
Hopefully without damage...
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Forgive me... God NEVER goes against our will EVER. Forgive me.. you must listen.. She and her boyfriend have a will. She made a choice so has he. God didn't will not show you the mans heart or hers. We only see flesh.
So.. my question is .. did GOD tell her? That's the way it works. See God always uses PEACE..never fear worry doubt.
So.. my question is .. did GOD tell her? That's the way it works. See God always uses PEACE..never fear worry doubt.
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also, god told me to become close friends with one of her (I’m kinda friends with her and her roomates but we aren’t really close at all) but idk how to proceed cause I never see her
He said once I do this things will work out
He said once I do this things will work out
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Then listen to God and wait.
"Wait on the LORD. Be of good courage, and He shall strengthen your heart: wait I say, on the LORD" Psalm 27:14
Heavenly Father, provide clarity and discernment according to thy plan for this one, In Jesus Name, Amen
"Wait on the LORD. Be of good courage, and He shall strengthen your heart: wait I say, on the LORD" Psalm 27:14
Heavenly Father, provide clarity and discernment according to thy plan for this one, In Jesus Name, Amen
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Something cool happened today, because of our schedules we rarely see each other, but today we got to speak, it’s weird I have been seeing her much more often
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Hello, thank you for writing and sharing your situation with us. I know that is not always easy to do. First, if you believe that she is the one for you, then she must be a believer as well. Ultimately, she will see that this person is not equally yoked, and it will end. While you wait on her, you can do what I did when the Lord called me back to Him years ago: be married to Christ and keep your eyes focused on Him. Grow upward spiritually, closer to God. Before you know it, one of two things will happen: either she will be available and attracted to you or not. If she is, GREAT! If not, you will be in a much better position my Brother. I will be praying for you.
May God Bless You!
Btw…three years after the Lord called me back, I was on fire for Him and serving in the singles ministry. I was really attracted to this cute woman who played the piano and went to the single women’s group. I agreed to serve as the Sunday School administrator and main teacher for the mixed singles group and took the initiative to establish a group fun calendar for all 200+ singles in our church. As such, I also decided to start a through-the-bible study that started meeting at Starbucks on Friday Nights (later moved to people’s houses). I was able to rope this woman that I liked in because she really loved God’s Word. Though I did not know it at the time, she had dated someone like you described earlier, but had broken up with him because of his lack of love for God and His Word (so have faith!). We have now been married for 12 years and have four wonderful children!
May God Bless You!
Btw…three years after the Lord called me back, I was on fire for Him and serving in the singles ministry. I was really attracted to this cute woman who played the piano and went to the single women’s group. I agreed to serve as the Sunday School administrator and main teacher for the mixed singles group and took the initiative to establish a group fun calendar for all 200+ singles in our church. As such, I also decided to start a through-the-bible study that started meeting at Starbucks on Friday Nights (later moved to people’s houses). I was able to rope this woman that I liked in because she really loved God’s Word. Though I did not know it at the time, she had dated someone like you described earlier, but had broken up with him because of his lack of love for God and His Word (so have faith!). We have now been married for 12 years and have four wonderful children!
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I pray you will find someone who values the Lord so much that she couldn't connect herself to someone who hates Him, and that you will be happy together.
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