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Again I agree. Our bodies are not our own, they belong to the Lord and He designed that we take care of each other’s needs. We are not to deprive one another(1 Corinthians 7:4-5). In Ephesians, we get to see the model of the Christian relationship with the man being exhorted to “love his wife as Christ loved the church”. Such a challenging passage. Christ’s example isn’t domineering, but it is to lead. Leading and domineering are not the same thing.
Paul's instructions to the man doesn't have anything to do with commanding him to lead the home, but is giving another example of Ephesians 5:21 to submit to one another in Christ Jesus. BOTH the husband and wife are to submit to one another and put the other's needs before his or her own. Paul also wasn't instructing people to set up their homes exactly like the *pagan* Greco Roman households of his day, but was using them as common examples of a household structure in which many were already living in order to help them to understand Christ. This whole passage...the "mystery" so to speak that is not really about husband and wife (as Paul states)...but is to help people who were recent converts from paganism to Christianity to understand Christ.
When we instead use the passage to try to enforce an unbalanced social system where one gender dominates over the other, as well as over children, and servants, we are misusing scripture to do harm to other people. We are switching the intended meaning by turning it all around backwards.
While God tolerated patriarchy (same as he tolerated Solomon having hundreds of wives and concubines) because of free will, he did not set up something so evil as patriarchy. Humans are perfectly capable of creating evil things all on our own, and God informed both the woman and man that it would happen as a result of their sin.
Both men and women were created in his image and both men and women were to be his stewards over creation. God created man and woman for companionship and relationship, like the Trinity is in relationship, and not for one to keep the other enslaved as a lesser being. The word "ezer" is used in other places in scripture to describe God in relationship to humans, and God is in no way a lesser being or enslaved to humankind.
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