My argument is with you because from what I view that is of scripture: God is not a cruel or unjust God as to what you (don't realize) have describing. The reason why I have probably been aggressive in tone is because I think your views are not just wrong but it is the reason why we had christians fall into atheism.
I understand why you argue with me. It is because you, and understandably so, as well as many people believe, God should be letting all the nice people into heaven and the mean evil and violent people who hurt others should go to hell...
You also believe that there should be punishment for these atrocious evil hurtful sins such as the holocaust, serial killers, ISIS, kidnappers, and any other violent or physiologically damaging assaults against other humans.
When I say that God will forgive these human pieces of excrement, you bach and say that God must not be loving... especially when the victims can go to hell if they don't believe in Christ.
This short circuits our logical and moral brains. It sends up flags and we cry foul.
Hey, I get it. However, we need to realize that we have finite human minds and God is All Knowing, All Powerful and Ever present. He is not confined to our limited knowledge and intelligence.
He tells us that "all" sins are forgiven (Yes, except for blasphemy of the Holy Spirit).
The best example of this is Saul of Tarsus. This man, a Jewish leader and well educated in the law of that time, hated Christians. He was feared by them and systematically murdered them. That was his goal.. end this new fanatic following of Christ, who's teaching was a blight to the existing religious paradigm.
Yet, this murderous evil hearted man, who was running wild in Israel, was saved and went on to be one of the most famous and honored writers of the NT.
He is even called Saint Paul.
So, in the end, it doesn't matter what we think is right or just. God is the judge and has the final say. He and only He will know the heart of each human and deem if they are righteous and can enter heaven. Not us.
Nobody, in the end, will be shouting, that wasn't fair. We will all see and know everything and understand why.