Apparently you fail to notice what his Word states regarding his will.
Apparently, cafeteria Christianity will save those that focus only on the verses they prefer. Here are some more verses, for those that think they're reading God's word but are only cherry-picking what they want to hear to deceive themselves:
"everyone who hears these words of mine and does not put them into practice is like a foolish man"Matt7:26 and complete will be his destruction.
"But these, as natural brute beasts, made to be taken and destroyed, speak evil of the things that they understand not; and shall utterly perish in their own corruption"2Pet2:12
"And by that same word, the present heavens and earth are reserved for fire, kept for the day of judgment and destruction of ungodly men." 2Peter3:7
" It is a fearful thing to fall into the Hands of the Living God." Heb 10:31
"for our God is a consuming fire." Hebrews 12:29"
This is good and acceptable before God our Savior, who desires all men to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth. 1 Tim 2:3-4
And I, when I am lifted up from the earth, will draw all men to Myself. Jn 12:32
As you can see, He did indeed say all will be saved - not should be saved.
Universalism is a pleasant and hopeful concept, but is not scripturally sound based off of a couple verses which are easily seen to be contingent upon 100 other verses not coming to pass according to God's will; neither is Univeralism allowed to be preached on Christian forums. That all will be drawn, at some point in their lives, does not negate the many that fall away into delusion and error Heb6:4, the many that will show up saying "lord, lord" and be told to go away into the flamesMatt7:22, the men that are without excuse Rom 1:20, those rejected like EsauHeb12:17, the 3 out of four soils that are unfit for growing the Word Matt13:4; and the evidence goes on and on for anyone that reads the Holy bible once in a while, just to remind themselves.
Again, for those that can hear, God did not desire for Adam and Eve to eat of the fruit of the tree of knowledge, but He allowed it because their disobedience was in the realm of possibility. If it were not possible to go wrong, He would not have warned against it. You might 'desire' a purple eight-legged unicorn for your birthday, that doesn't mean you're going to get it. The difference between what is desired and what must be manifested is according to His will, not Oldmantook's will. Where most people have a hard time is understanding the mystery of how anyone can disobey a sovereign God, as in, why does He warn us of what will happen when we do the things He already knows we will do, since He has willed all that has ever, is ever, and will ever occur; it is not information accessible to, or comprehended by, a finite consciousness Rom9:19-21. That could be why acknowledged and confessed sins are fore given up to the second birth; they were destined beforehand, for humans to experience and suffer the consequences of, so that some might be turned away from them, with grace, and salvaged from the grips of sin. That doesn't equate to everyone receiving and retaining the offer, since not even all of those that do receive and retain it for a while end up enduring the trials and temptations.
It's kind of like how so many people misuse and misconstrue the verse, "with God all things are possible" to their own vain desires and intentions. It doesn't actually mean that any absurdly imaginable thing is possible (like real, in the flesh purple unicorns), but that all things that are possible, and that are done, are so only in, by, and through Him. Though His absolute will might desire for all to be saved, His permissive will allows for most choosing their own destruction.
His Word states that he desires to save all men. His Word states that he desires that none should perish. His Word states that his will is to reconcile all things to himself. As you stated he is bound by his word. Yet you lack an explanation of why all of these aforementioned things that he is bound by, fail to happen since he is sovereign.
If you knew the living Word is Jesus the Christ, written and living in the hearts of the truly saved, then you would not be using the written word as an idol, which is merely an image of dead ink on dead paper that will not save anyone (John 5:39). This really seems like someone is clinging to a couple verses out of sheer terror, in the hopes they will be saved on that day by saying "see, look here, I have these two verses that say you gotta let me in!". Be sure to show those verses to everyone outside the city "the dogs--the sorcerers, the sexually immoral, the murderers, the idol worshipers, and all who love to live a lie." Rev15:22
