Hi andrea0601 i think you should speak to your Pastor in your congregation about this one The LORD has
ordained him with his Spirit to handle Spiritual matters in the congregation trust him he is there to help you in such matters as you listed.I dont assume anything are you saved and a Christian i ask this because i no of people whom pray and are not saved in truth most people pray before they call upon the name of the LORD again speak to your Pastor. By the way your seeking to want to please The Father at the age of 17 brings me joy also read Mat 7: 20 thru 24 these folks that they had did so so much but the LORD is in Heaven with his finger down his throat their making him sick you see. GOD bless you and dont give up remember that which the LORD has started a work in he will complete
1 What shall we say then that Abraham our father, as pertaining to the flesh, hath found?
2 For if Abraham were justified by works, he hath
whereof to glory; but not before God.
3 For what saith the scripture? Abraham believed God, and it was counted unto him for righteousness.
4 Now to him that worketh is the reward not reckoned of grace, but of debt.
5 But to him that worketh not, but believeth on him that justifieth the ungodly, his faith is counted for righteousness.
6 Even as David also describeth the blessedness of the man, unto whom God imputeth righteousness without works,
7 Saying, Blessed
are they whose iniquities are forgiven, and whose sins are covered.
8 Blessed
is the man to whom the Lord will not impute sin.
I would ask you one thing listen to the song ( Beautiful by Mercy Me )