Hi all,
I'm looking for some advice please about a dating situation.
Earlier this year I was in a relationship with a woman who I met on a christian dating website. We dated for about three months long distance before her job changed location and at the same I wasn't feeling that I wanted to marry her, so I decided the right thing was to end the relationship. It turned out she was good friends with someone who'd 'waved' at me previously on this same christian website, but I hadn't followed up on it. Through being a friend of my ex-girlfriend, I got to know her a little bit during the time, and thought she was pretty cool. I tried to kill those feelings though of course because I was dating somebody else! Now that I'm no longer in a relationship I'm wondering if I should pursue her (me and my ex-girlfriend broke up four months ago). Obviously I know this is far from ideal, and I don't want to hurt my ex-girlfriend, but at the same time we're both single, so maybe it's not ideal but still ok?
*P.s I'm not an awful person, but just trying to find the right way though it all.
I'm looking for some advice please about a dating situation.
Earlier this year I was in a relationship with a woman who I met on a christian dating website. We dated for about three months long distance before her job changed location and at the same I wasn't feeling that I wanted to marry her, so I decided the right thing was to end the relationship. It turned out she was good friends with someone who'd 'waved' at me previously on this same christian website, but I hadn't followed up on it. Through being a friend of my ex-girlfriend, I got to know her a little bit during the time, and thought she was pretty cool. I tried to kill those feelings though of course because I was dating somebody else! Now that I'm no longer in a relationship I'm wondering if I should pursue her (me and my ex-girlfriend broke up four months ago). Obviously I know this is far from ideal, and I don't want to hurt my ex-girlfriend, but at the same time we're both single, so maybe it's not ideal but still ok?
*P.s I'm not an awful person, but just trying to find the right way though it all.