- Mar 7, 2018
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I've posted on here before about a falling out with my pastors family and a desire to reconcile even though not only does he think they're not doing anything wrong by cutting ties with me, but also think its biblical to do so, (I in no way agree with this and am fully convinced they're being sinful). I have made my attempt at reconciliation a couple times only to get rejected, and walked away after that, later on I noticed his family unfollowed me on instagram.
Fast forward several months later...I receive an email from the pastor...it is an individual email advertising his next sermon series inviting me to the church. Normally, church emails are sent from the churches email to a long list of members.
This email was sent directly from the pastor to only my email.
Maybe I'm looking too much into this and perhaps it's not even An individual email...but I'm curious what if it is...would this even be appropriate to send to me before reconciliation with me?
I would like nothing more than to reconcile with his family but I'm not about to return to a church whose pastor and family is choosing not to love me. I need us to trust each other first.
Fyi, the salutation is addressed as "hello friend," even though it seems very clear we are not friends.
Fast forward several months later...I receive an email from the pastor...it is an individual email advertising his next sermon series inviting me to the church. Normally, church emails are sent from the churches email to a long list of members.
This email was sent directly from the pastor to only my email.
Maybe I'm looking too much into this and perhaps it's not even An individual email...but I'm curious what if it is...would this even be appropriate to send to me before reconciliation with me?
I would like nothing more than to reconcile with his family but I'm not about to return to a church whose pastor and family is choosing not to love me. I need us to trust each other first.
Fyi, the salutation is addressed as "hello friend," even though it seems very clear we are not friends.