- Mar 11, 2016
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Wow this is all very true. Everything I bolded is what I don't want to happen. And it's so easy to do. Cohabitation benefits men more than it does women in the sense they can get everythinh out of the woman and they can keep pushing the proposal date back or worse break up,find someone else and move on...which is too heart breaking for words.Here's the reality of human relationships. You are either growing closer, or drifting apart. There really is no in between. There is no point where you reach a static state. This is true pre-marriage as well.
So when you date for years on end, without getting married, you are begging to end up sleeping around before being married. And sleeping with a guy before getting married, is a great way to end up wrecking your life.
Not only do you invite all kinds of problems, but you sabotage your chances of ever getting married to the guy. Sad fact of modern western culture..... If the guy can get you to meet his needs before marriage... why get married?
I have met guys that were hot to get married. But the women wanted to live together before marriage. So they did. A year later, that same guy that was actually pushing to get married, now was completely against. Why get married? What for? He's getting what he wants already. He doesn't need to get married.
That women, absolutely destroyed her own relationship. They eventually broke up, and he found someone else. Meanwhile, she's now a single mother.
Dating for a long period of time, is very bad. It's not only just bad because you end up in bad situations like you mentioned, it is bad because it sabotages your own relationships.
When you're cooking,cleaning and having sex to keep a man you're just performing for a ring that may never come.
In short, I agree with what you said.
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