I've been reading about Calvinism vs. Arminism although I am not full with either side. I've accepted Christ as my Savior and strive to build my relationship with Him.
According to Calvinism God predestines who is saved. God does the drawing because no one can come to Him so if you accept Christ it is because He drew you.
Can someone who genuinely desire to be saved be damned if God decides it? Or is that impossible?
John 6:44......…
“no one can come to Me unless the Father who sent Me draws him, and I will raise him up at the last day.”
The natural man has no ability to come to God, nor does he even have the desire to come. Because his heart is hard and his mind is darkened, the unregenerate person doesn’t desire God and is actually an enemy of God.
When Jesus says that no man can come without God’s drawing him, He is making a statement about the total depravity of the sinner and the universality of that condition.
So darkened is the unsaved person’s heart that he doesn’t even realize it.
Jere. 17:9.....……….
“The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it?”
Therefore, it is only by the merciful and gracious drawing of God that we are saved.
In the conversion of the sinner, God enlightens the mind, convicts the spirit and inclines the will toward Himself, and influences the soul, without which influence the soul remains darkened and rebellious against God. All of this is involved in the drawing process.
That is the reason and truth behind Ephesians 2:8-9...………
"For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith-and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God- not by works, so that no one can boast."