Does he do this in front of the kids?!?
That said while your bodies "belong" to each other, it doesn't say anything about controlling the other person/persons body. He's in the wrong and needs to get help understanding what the bible is talking about.
Going by your other posts where he calls you useless because you don't pack his lunch it sounds like its a cultural thing for sure. Not trying to stereotype but is he asian?
My american friend married a Japanese man and had the same exact issues. Woman were just a work tool to take care of home, kids and give sex. She divorced him recently due to it escalating to abuse.
In their culture this is the norm sadly to treat women like property. Its hard to because despite what the bible says they are still used to their way being the normal way and its hard to change their view on it.
I'd also find a new church if they aren't teaching things correctly.
Yes, he is.
I didn't want to post that as it would seem like I was being "racist" but he does use his culture as an excuse, and so he makes his culture into a big problem in this relationship. Instead of being a fair host, he got annoyed at my friend who didn't want to eat with chopsticks---that was way far gone and it started a spat out, so now he banned her from ever coming over again. All over a stupid utensil and too much pride. His own mother has forks in her house, he is living in another universe and acting legalistic over a lot of things as if he still lives in Asia---except in an Asian restaurant, people are a lot hospitable than he is!
He is very rude to my family and friends and will easily ban them all from ever staying over and ruining my friendships
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