- Feb 11, 2018
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- Single
Hi brothers and sisters,
Thank you for this website and thanks for your input.
Anyway, I have been dating a guy for two years. He lives in Europe and I live in the US. I'm 35 and he's 72. What drew me to him is that he's a hippie from the 60s, spiritual, gentle mostly, a loner type, happy, and a "gnarly" dresser. He also knows my past and doesn't judge. We seem pretty similar, as I'm basically a hippie of the modern day (minus the random hookups and drugs). We both dress Bohemian, colorful. We're both into third world rustic, idyllic cultures, especially Brazil and we dream of going there together. He's a gypsy traveler (about 55 countries, mostly third world). He's a simple, poor fellow, the romantic type of poverty, like me. I'm the product of African parents and he loves African women. I've met him twice for three weeks each.
I don't know though, now that I write it down, we seem like a match made in Heaven. I guess I'm just starting to lose interest as I grow in faith. Socializing seems mindless and meaningless. I care about him but sometimes when we talk, I want nothing more than to watch a Christian show or pray or something.
I know I'm making a mountain out of a molehill. Someone correctly pointed out that him being so old is a good thing, as that means one day I will get to be alone and more monastic.
Also, there are a couple of younger, Christian guys that are interested in dating, but I don't see it going anywhere. I don't want to get married or have kids. I want to be celibate.
Thoughts?
Thank you for this website and thanks for your input.
Anyway, I have been dating a guy for two years. He lives in Europe and I live in the US. I'm 35 and he's 72. What drew me to him is that he's a hippie from the 60s, spiritual, gentle mostly, a loner type, happy, and a "gnarly" dresser. He also knows my past and doesn't judge. We seem pretty similar, as I'm basically a hippie of the modern day (minus the random hookups and drugs). We both dress Bohemian, colorful. We're both into third world rustic, idyllic cultures, especially Brazil and we dream of going there together. He's a gypsy traveler (about 55 countries, mostly third world). He's a simple, poor fellow, the romantic type of poverty, like me. I'm the product of African parents and he loves African women. I've met him twice for three weeks each.
I don't know though, now that I write it down, we seem like a match made in Heaven. I guess I'm just starting to lose interest as I grow in faith. Socializing seems mindless and meaningless. I care about him but sometimes when we talk, I want nothing more than to watch a Christian show or pray or something.
I know I'm making a mountain out of a molehill. Someone correctly pointed out that him being so old is a good thing, as that means one day I will get to be alone and more monastic.
Also, there are a couple of younger, Christian guys that are interested in dating, but I don't see it going anywhere. I don't want to get married or have kids. I want to be celibate.
Thoughts?
