Shame and guilt.That sounds crazy. So they teach that if you get a virus and are sick, or inherit some genetic disease that it's your fault? If you don't have "control over every area of life", what are the implications?
I think there are times when sadness surfaces. I try to think of reasons to be happy. In fact I pray about it. It helps to realize things could be worse.
We have to keep focusing on our blessings.
Philippians 4
4 Rejoice in the Lord alway: and again I say, Rejoice. 5 Let your moderation be known unto all men. The Lord is at hand. 6 Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God. 7 And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.
8 Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things. 9 Those things, which ye have both learned, and received, and heard, and seen in me, do: and the God of peace shall be with you.
If I'm having trouble with re-occurring thoughts, I can do something to take my mind off of them.
The worst thing someone can say is, "Snap out of it!" That is a critical attitude. True friends try to be helpful instead.
You hear people say all the time that they can't help it. They can't help how they feel. They say this when they fall in love with someone, even when it is forbidden. Or when they feel hatred towards someone.
So, like I asked, is it possible that we do have control how we feel? I am taking a communications class in college, and according to the text book, we are in control on how we feel. But sometimes it does not feel like we control how we feel.
You hear people say all the time that they can't help it. They can't help how they feel. They say this when they fall in love with someone, even when it is forbidden. Or when they feel hatred towards someone.
So, like I asked, is it possible that we do have control how we feel? I am taking a communications class in college, and according to the text book, we are in control on how we feel. But sometimes it does not feel like we control how we feel.
You hear people say all the time that they can't help it. They can't help how they feel. They say this when they fall in love with someone, even when it is forbidden. Or when they feel hatred towards someone.
So, like I asked, is it possible that we do have control how we feel? I am taking a communications class in college, and according to the text book, we are in control on how we feel. But sometimes it does not feel like we control how we feel.
You hear people say all the time that they can't help it. They can't help how they feel. They say this when they fall in love with someone, even when it is forbidden. Or when they feel hatred towards someone.
So, like I asked, is it possible that we do have control how we feel? I am taking a communications class in college, and according to the text book, we are in control on how we feel. But sometimes it does not feel like we control how we feel.